So, we're supposed to erase our late spouse or be alone forever? ):

@Zster Just telling you what most single women think. But if you are going to date only widows, it doesn't matter. However, if you date widows you'll likely find out for yourself that it's often difficult to replace someone.

WOW, did you ever take my comment wrong......Most widowers are not looking to "replace" their deceased spouse, nor for someone to take over their "duties". What a horrible idea you have of us. You are the exact reason that we stick together and only want to date each other. People like you that have not "lost" a spouse have no idea how horrible it is to lose a spouse to death and are always trying to compare death to divorce. Trust me, there is no comparison. In a divorce,one of the parties "wanted" it to end and made a choice, in a divorce, "neither" party had a "choice. Please show a little compassion to your widowed friends in the future!!!!!

@JerryARIZONA Whoa! Calm down! Most men are looking for a female replacement, even of their old girlfriends. I don't go on a second date if they start bringing up any ex. But you seem to have an issue about people making comments. If you disagree with someone, just don't respond.