If you must prioritize, what is your preferred type of relationship with someone?
1.highly erotic lover
2.peaceful companion
3.jokester friend
4.up for anything adventure friend
5.cuddle friend who exchanges foot rubs with you
6.intellectual debate friend
Ideally, all these types of relationships could be merged in one romantic partner, but it's not likely.
I most value 4 and 5, which could be anyone, even a same-sex friend.
For romance, I narrow it down to 1 and 4; for friendship, 3 and 4.