It depends on the content of your post and also your settings on the site.
I have my settings set so that I dont' get notifications of "likes", because I just want to read responses and comments. I appreciate the likes, but just gettign a like doesn't stimulate my mind.
Some things I post dont' get any rewponse at all. While oen past I made a logn time ago still gets several replies a week.
Sometimes less than five minutes. Been on here since November and have been messaging with members since then.