Statistically speaking there are probably about 15-20 men on here for every single woman so remember your message is going to be swimming among 10 to 20 others and she's probably already found someone to talk to. It sucks but that's the nature of the internet.

I think perhaps it's more a matter of perspective than being whiney. I get that you're depressed and lonely and want to chat with like-minded people, but everyone has an offline life and sometimes that means schedules don't match up as well as we'd like. It may be worth noting, too, that this site is new and undergoing lots of development, so some things like "following" are still being worked on. Right now I think following alerts you only when someone posts but not when they make a comment (unless it's a response to your comment). I'm hoping the developers eventually add a full activity feed, but I'm being patient to see what they have in the works before I make any suggestions. I hope your experience here improves, but please bear in mind that people aren't trying to be rude when they disappear for a while or fade from a conversation; life sometimes gets in the way, attention is split, people forget one of many conversations they had going, etc. Good luck to you.

Well hey there. Love you man!

I can't even figure out how to get a title separate from my post, or delete a post, or add hashtags to it. I'm sure i would care more if i got more responses though, lol, agree.