On Christmas Day, my friend Bruce called. Funny and wise, Bruce is a counselor and atheist. He moved to Texas to be close to his kids. "How's your dating life?" he asked. I told him about meeting a new man who scared me.
"You look like a victim," the man said during lunch at a restaurant in January 2019.
"I don't feel like a victim!" I protested. "I walk fast with good posture, constantly scanning around me. Never look at my phone or in my purse while walking."
"Because you are thin, you look easy to grab," he said.
"That's a terrible thing to say to a small woman," I gasped, horrified. He chilled me to my core. Of course I refused a second date.
"He told you he's a psychopath," Bruce said. "It's good you didn't see him again."
That man's words haunt me. He took a chunk out of my already shaky feelings about being safe in the world as a small woman.
Psychopath is a mild word for anyone to hint harm of an innocent person..... rapacious rapists misogynist boys are all belonging on a sex crime registry when they confess such intentions.... same as playing with guns.....I respect your decision to avoid learning how to use a pistol for self defense.....Maybe 2 movies can help all caring people here to understand sex criminals....: JAGGED EDGE and THE WOODMAN ..... one about justice and the latter about a boy who became a pedophile....JEFF BRIDGES and KEVIN BACON are courageous actors to perform those horrifying roles
You are a giant mountain tamer to me.....wise powerful beautiful sensuous supportive encouraging mentor to many....remember the psychopath facial features and height build to report to police as a suspect in unsolved crimes ....save all his contact details to protect all other people from him
Stay safe have protective devices ready for defensive actions.....mace spray pepper spray a sharp key looking knife even a pistol in your purse you can shoot from inside unseen by the one about to "grab" you.....reminds me again about the psychopath in White House pussy GRABbing
"Most westerners wether they are Christians or non-Christians don't trust nature. Of all things nature is the thing least to be trusted! You must manage it, you must watch out for it, it comes out with weeds and insects and it will always go wrong if you don't watch out it! And above all human nature isn't to be trusted! Cause if you don't hold a club over your own head you might go out and rape your grandmother!"
My reading of the situation is he got a vision from your past in his imagination. People tend to interpretate things than rather looking for facts. This regarding another fellow human. If it was some news, I wouldn't be surprised if he did a fact check. Being about another human he preferred to make his own judgement based on what he was imagining. Attention, this is my interpretation, there are great chances that I'm wrong.