Chatting with friend recently reminded me of this Hundred Waters song - Cavity:

there's a man walking
with a rope and a shovel in his hand
and he's digging
He's digging
down to clay
i lean back and watch the ceiling sway

But you make these feelings go away
you make these feelings go
you make these feelings go away
you make these feelings go

You Love Who Floods

seeing him's easy when no ones around
finding him's easy when all that you've found
are gardens and sirens both move to the sound
of little worms writhing

But you make these feelings go away
you make these feelings go away
you make these feelings go

You Love Who Floods
You Love Who Floods
You Love Who Floods
You Love Who Floods

(come then, come over, and sit by me
swallow the arrow following me
nothing to fill in, nothing to free
nothing here love but a cavity)

Are these virtual relationships really leading us to find "nothing here but a cavity"? What has your experience been?