After Washington State closed hair salons, my hairdresser Kameon has been illegally cutting and coloring customer's hair in her home. She refuses to wear a mask, even though I sewed her one. Have been urging her wear a mask to protect herself, her family and customers.
She's a Republican. Five years ago, I convinced Kameon to remove the Confederate flag from the teen boy cave in her garage. "It's a symbol of racism," I insisted.
Previously, we agreed to disagree over politics. Yesterday she said we can't be friends anymore because "you insist on shoving your beliefs down my throat."
"Clearly, you dumped me as a friend when you got involved with Tim" (two years ago), I replied. Kameon plans to marry Tim and move away to an isolated barn they are remodeling.
It's her fourth marriage. She sold her business and building. Now she is selling her house, eliminating fall-back options if the marriage doesn't work out. I don't dare say that to her.
C'est la vie. A few of my friends are Republicans who actually wear a mask. But refusing to wear a mask is a public health hazard. I refuse to be silent about it.
Your thoughts?
I fully agree with your position.
Sounds like you have outgrown her (less then responsible) behavior. I would say no loss on your behalf if she removes you from her circle of friends (not sure I would want to be a member of her circle of friends).
I don't understand people's apprehension about masks. I have made just under 2 dozen masks and given half away to my mother and a nurse that is an old friend. The nurse (Home health care and hospice) sees an average of 7 patients a day and she uses a different mask for each encounter. You know this is the same policy your old friend should practice.
I hope most states (and/or cities) mandate mandatory mask usage.
As mandated on campus, when working at school I have worn a home made mask for most of the day and found I should swap them every few hours as they get wet. (I added a removable filter layer between the outer cloth and lining). They are nice as when you take off the mask, you smell things with a great deal of strength.
I will likely build and use a powered respirator (mask to be worn under home-made mask) as I am rather sure I will encounter virus in the classroom when they restart school in a month and a few days.
I have no friends who would not wear a mask.
I'm a Conservative, who is also a Pharmacy tech by trade, I have been wearing a mask, since the beginning. I wear it to protect everyone, I don't see this as political, but just common sense decency. I hate how some are saying "Their rights are being violated". I try to live by the rule that, "My freedom ends, where the next person's, begins".
I think it is more accurate to say you were friendly with her. She is not your friend, or she would respect your health. It's not like there isn't any evidence to support your position. Then again, she is a republekin.