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What is the first thing you are attracted to in a man or woman?

The feature I notice is a woman with pretty eyes.

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ebdb 7 Apr 8
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The eyes have it for me. A lot is told through the eyes and if what I'm told is good, I'm snagged.

AmyLF Level 7 Apr 9, 2018

....and mine?

@Agr8m8 LOL They are a bit bugged at the camera. I like to catch them when a person is not consciously aware someone's watching. That's revealing on a few levels.
Beautiful color though.

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His Soul!

Damn, I sold mine years ago...

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Sprightliness.

I like sprites.

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Availability.

marga Level 7 Apr 9, 2018
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i honestly can't say theres one thing that automatically draws me in. im not saying ive never been like hey! that dude has a nice kaboose. or ooh look at those luscious locks! but for one thing i have never really noticed a constant theme. like i don't seem 2 be particularly attracted 2 any one thing over another. and the other thing is, at least for me, i usually don't even notice if you have nice eyes or good teeth or whatever, until im already attracted 2 you. once i find a connection with someone on a personal level, then i start 2 really notice them. and often i tend 2 find some quirk that i find i like, maybe they have a crooked smile, or they have one piece of hair that won't do what they want or something silly like that

Byrd Level 7 Apr 9, 2018
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To make myself clear, I am asking about what you see physically that attracts you to them even before you speak.

ebdb Level 7 Apr 9, 2018

Then nothing.

Nothing. I may like someone's looks, but it doesn't mean I'm attracted to them. It's how they act and how they treat me that determines how attracted I am to them.

Manly forearms

I can have both kinds of attraction to another human.

There is the plain ol' physical "Damn, that other human is beautiful and mostly it's their __ (eyes, smile, etc.)." I can have this attraction (however brief) passing by a complete stranger on the street.

And, there is the whole human "Wow, that human is beautiful because of their _____ character, humor, integrity, wistfulness, intelligence, etc.)." This attraction usually takes a conversation - at least.

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Unfortunately none of the choices. The first thing that attracts me to a woman is her intelligence. If there is minimal or absolutely no sign of intelligence, then it's a deal breaker.

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All the above... mostly beauty. Upon meeting someone, then finding or realizing the beauty she possesses without looking for it. That must be the chemistry we hear so much about.

Tomas Level 7 Apr 9, 2018
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I have to confess a peachy butt is extremely sensual but in truth the first thing to attract me about a woman is her dress sense. I like quirky women with an sense of individual style and that continues onto her physicality I guess. I like the elfin/pixie look. but yeah, a tight butt lol

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Sense of humour. Then eyes, then legs, then butts. LOL

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In the order of time the first thing is the eyes followed by the personality then character....🙂

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Well, it depends, from across a store?... her body head to toe, but when up close, sparkling eyes and an awesome 'white teeth' smile. (I am strict about great oral hygiene.)

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they did not even consider voting for trump

EMC2 Level 8 Apr 9, 2018

What? You don't like Trump? He's the best king this nation has ever had.

@The_Antichrist King?...I was thing 'court jester'...hehe, but hard to be a bigger clown than Dubya.

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I am attracted to a woman with a certain shape to her lips and then her eyes.

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Personality. Compassion.

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Honesty humbleness humility and smile

Rosh Level 7 Apr 9, 2018
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If she is a cool as a cumcumber, and can own the room with a glance and a cutting remark - then I am in lurve.

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A combination of many things

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Chest or smile. Or stamina lol

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Their confidence. If it is the real thing, it clings to them like Axxe aftershave, just not so obnoxious. I find confident , intelligen people attractive above all other attributes, although it does not hurt if they look like Wolverine.

I look like The Lorax, according to the younger granddaughter!

@farmboy2017 Ánd who is the Lorax? A power ranger? I know he's not a muppet.

@Spinliesel It was some Disney movie character a couple of years ago. I've never seen it.

@farmboy2017 I'll ask Lia, our Disney specialist. She is 8 and knows everything.

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I absolutely LOVE women. Although I am attracted by every part of the female body, I guess you would say that I am an ass man. Actually, I believe a woman's personality is the window to her soul!

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None of the above.

The first thing I find myself attractive to is personality.

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Depends what I see first really. it's the things that put me of that are important.

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