Fine if you let all concerned clearly know from the outset that you want nothing more than FRIENDSHIP. I do not t think that a potential girlfriend would want a date with your old female friend tagging along any more than a man would like to go on a date with a woman who wants to bring an old male friend along. Carol probably thought of herself as your new girlfriend, would that not be a natural assumption on her part?

As for the ex moving back to live with you, I could be wrong but get the feeling that maybe she wants to come back because things did not work out for her and she knows that you are a nice guy. By your own admission you said that you felt lonely so the ex moving back in with you is an easy option, familiar territory. I cannot see how you could have the ex living in your home and have a new girlfriend without some serious issues popping up, unless you have made it clear to all parties that you are only interested in FRIENDSHIP and they do not mind, however, that does not seem to be the case, does it?

When it rains, it pours. There's something about not seeming desperate to women, when you have a woman " friend". 6 th sense of some kind that they have

Thank you! I appreciate your kindness.

When I was a bachelor in my early twenties I had half a dozen "free and easy", teenage girl friends, with no jealousy indications. We often went out as a bunch.
It was only once the women were older, and I was "valuable", that "possession" issues (jealousy if you like) started to appear.
I sympathise with your dilemma of being too old and too valuable for fun friendships with females.

Women don't like it when a guy they're dating dates some else. They're funny that way.

Totally nothing wrong with having fun with friends, and even more than one friend at a time, as long as these are friend dates, not preludes to romantic dates. Once there are romantic overtures, or the hopes that there will be some in the near future, then it's best to do that one at a time, in my opinion.

Only reason I can think of for jealousy between Carol and Ginger would be that since you met Carol on a dating app, she might have been expecting romantic dating to occur at some point and assumes you are just taking it slow. If she feels threatened by Ginger as a potential romantic interest for you, then her natural reaction might be jealousy. Maybe there is a mis-communication between you and some clarification or defining of your friendship or relationship is in order?

For me, I've given up on dating, so I'm just happy to do things by myself or with platonic friends of either gender. I realize that a few guys I know might want to get a little closer, but I make it clear that I don't want to complicate things at this time and that works well for me. Because of that, I'm not on any dating apps. If I was on a dating app, that would mean I'm interested in, um, dating and seeking romance...

Jealousy between platonic friends shouldn't happen. But if there's a hope for romance by one of the friends, then I can see there would be jealousy. Could it be that Carol simply doesn't like Ginger? Seems some communication would help.

As far as your ex-wife possibly returning, I wonder what she'd think of you having new friends. You are allowed to have friends after a divorce. But if there are any control issues, then you might feel obligated to give up your new friends and go back to only doing stuff with your ex. Guess you'll have to make up your mind.

If you want advice on how to juggle 3 or more women without them finding out about each other, I can give you my ex-bf's number. He got away with it for a long time, haha!

Can I give u an honest advice ? The Italian / Greek way ?
Is any of them makes u feel “ alive “ besides a friendship ?? Do u want to kiss any of them ?
Go w that one . Rest can stay friends . The ex will always be a friend , so don’t sweat that . Until she finds someone that she wants to kiss . Understand ? Meow meow to the one that makes u dizzy .