A lot of posts on this site have lamented that they haven't met anyone here yet. I finally have, and I'd like to offer a few thoughts.
Be your authentic weird self. And accept others as their OWN authentic weird selves. As I commented on a recent post: Normal is a setting on the dryer. We can learn from each other and expand our comfort zones.
And, unless it is impossible - don't let distance be a negative factor. The site is still fairly new, and our atheist/agnostic tribe is scattered. If something is meant to be, and we agree that life is short, go for it!!
I look forward to finally meeting him in person next month, but we have been corresponding daily and have discovered such happiness. The sky is the limit.