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Volunteering

This seems to be a western idea as once, during a vacation work week, a professor from a university in Beijing was visiting and documenting this idea to bring back to Asia. He said it was not a part of their tradition.
I have been volunteering for 25+ years and started even when I was working. Now retired, it sometimes seems I am more active than before. One thing about our island is that it is the ‘volunteer’ island and that makes it phenomenal. Everything, and I mean everything, depends on an army of volunteers. I recently came to appreciate our unique fireworks display and learned this is a true art form. Even after being here 7 years I often am surprised at a new discovery of a volunteer group. Here is a link to the heading for the recent fireworks display. [islandsweekly.com] scroll down to Firework show for an in-depth analysis of the art form and volunteer work. Here is a visual: [lopezfireworks.org] watch the slide show and click on the gallery. However, I still have a problem with the noise and disruption of the wildlife. How do you feel about volunteering?

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JackPedigo 9 July 7
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There's a saying... Whatever you do well. Never do for free.

Fortunately, not all sayings have a deeper meaning. What is more important money or satisfaction and joy? At some time most of us will be faced with retirement. So hat should we do, sit and wait to die or give back and continue to use our skills to help our society. My example gives, albeit a very small, idea of what volunteering ones time and energy can create.

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I occassionally volunteer to help with events here in town - watch street barricades, hand out packets, direct participants to events, etc... always got a free tee-shirt. For many years I never even thought about buying a tee-shirt. Lol!

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I have done a little volunteer work and it is rewarding.

On the fireworks, I like 'em BUT animals do not. The other problem is by the 4th it is pretty dry on the east side of WA State. Just since the 4th there have been several fires from sparks from boat trailers.
Most of the cities from Ronald to Ellensburg ban them in the city limits. County wide there is now a burn ban.
We can have all the fireworks we want at New Years. lol

I understand your issue. Fireworks are also banned here and there are signs everywhere saying so and the sheriff goes after people who break the law. Our fireworks are on a spit connecting the main part to the peninsula so there is water all around (an added bonus is that the fireworks are spread out over about a half mile).

@JackPedigo The city of Cle Elum will have a display and it's directed over the Yakima River, but if it is too windy it's postponed. Can't say whether the debris falling in the river bothers the fish.

@silverotter11 That is an interesting idea I had not heard of. Will have to ask.

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I give blood rvery 10 weeks...

I guess that counts as volunteering unless one gets paid.

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I think volunteering is important for community cohesion, support, and growth, and I think it's important for those who volunteer, to give a sense of purpose and to feed that part of the mind that's focused outwardly to provide some added perspective. Volunteerism was required where I attended college, and I was involved as the college banquet coordinator for four semesters, I coordinated part of two service trips and attended one (to a worker farm for people who were getting back on their feet), I was a tutor for math and writing, I was on the academic council for one year, and I helped out when the college hosted Special Olympics. After college, I didn't do a lot of volunteer work, but I was involved in helping the local chamber of commerce with some events and fundraising and did a few other little things for other groups. But work and life take over and it's easy to forget about volunteering. For a few years I thought about getting involved and donating my time again, but always felt too busy and too tired. But, as the Merovingian said in The Matrix, "if we do not ever take time, how can we ever have time?" So, last autumn the local resolution center advertised unique training for basic mediation plus parenting plan mediation — low cost (they had a grant for it, so instead of it costing each of us $1200 it was a nominal $100), locally held (so I didn't need to pay for lodging and significant travel), split up across three weekends (meaning I didn't need to take much time off work) — so I just figured this was the best opportunity I'd get and I jumped at it, and now I volunteer to mediate in typical magistrate matters as well as in creating custody and visitation plans for parents and other guardians. Since taking that training, I've also taken child support mediation training, so I'm certified to mediate child support agreements as well. In a couple of weeks, I'm taking a three-day training session to learn about leading relationship-building circles, which can be a building block for restorative justice mediation. I feel right now like I'm spending more time in training than mediating, but I'm hoping all of this training will help me get to the point where I can mediate more effectively and more frequently. If there aren't enough mediation cases available to make me feel like I'm doing it regularly enough, I may also pursue other volunteer opportunities, like the local literacy volunteers program.

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I have done volunteering in the past, but an mot really wanting to do more, s the recipients who benefitted from the work did not seem to appreciate the efforts people were making on their behalf. If I do work for free I want to feel appreciated.

Unlike working for pay one of the benefits of volunteering one can do what one wants and if not appreciated one can walk away. There is a national group known as the 'American Hiking Society' [americanhiking.org] They have work parties all over the place for all ages. We get about a dozen people for a week once a year here. Sometimes it is the same people who come year after year because they enjoy it so much.

@JackPedigo Actualy, one of th ekind of volunteering I have done that was appreciated, was trail maintanance, an dhelping to maintain local State parks and beaches. Almost everyoen who passes on the hiking trail or on th beach says "Thank you", noit to metnion the appreciation of rangers and fish and game people.

@snytiger6 I will repeat one of my comments. I am a regular volunteer for Patos Island lighthouse. It is a state park and we do 6 official work parties each year. On some of the workparties the rangers have told us how important our work is in keeping the service going and that without our work the park would not be what it is and the rangers would be overly stressed. They bend over backwards for us which includes providing boat transportation to and from the island whenever we need it. Another, similar situation is a lighthouse called Turn Point. [tplps.org] I think this might be a common theme around the country.

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I personally feel that the small village/volunteer model leads to the happiest people.

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That's an interesting comment about how this is not common in other countries. I do think that what our society is lacking, however, is a family bond that other societies find extremely important. They take care of their elderly in their homes instead of sending them off to nursing care. Children live with their families until they get married and are not thought of as a burden like they are here.

Maybe there is a relationship between societies that take care of their own not needing as much help from others (volunteer wise) as we do here. Thoughts?

Hihi Level 6 July 7, 2018

A book by Jared Diamond (The World Until Yesterday) discusses the idea you mentioned. His studies have shown that when a society has the resources more is given to the elderly/family members. When not, not. I come from a free range family but we never really felt a kinship to others outside our family. Also, a lot of families are dysfunctional. To me families are more ego-centric and exist in small, self-interested groups. Most of us exist within a society and very often depend on that society for a range of things. Your comment reminds me of the typical rural/urban differences in living styles. Funny, we are definitely a rural setting but without the sense of community and the huge volunteering here it would be a different world. My late partner was an extreme extrovert and her family lived in Iran so little connection. She craved community and found it here and, because of my volunteering mentality I have been able to fit in.

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If you have the will and have the time then yes by all means, go ahead !!

I would add another item, if you have the opportunity. I volunteered for a city park that was across the street from a nursing home. There were so many things people in the homes could of done to share their skills/knowledge and we talked about enlisting them all the time. Unfortunately, it never happened.

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I am what I'd describe as a low-energy introvert and I am doing good to get through a full-time work day and have something left over to relate to my wife and stepson and our dogs and our neighbors. I have done a few hours of pro bono work for a nonprofit this year and that's about it. I foresee doing more such things somewhere past full SS retirement age, when I will likely, at the least, cut back my work hours some. That is 5 years in the future though.

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My disability limits me to volunteer more than I want to.

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I need to do more volunteering having been forced to retire. I never really thought about retirement before and since the stupid social security rules won't let you work (they are obviously afraid that I'll take a job away from someone else, but in 4 years it's ok), volunteering is all that's left. As an aside and this just hit me, people complain that fireworks disturb dogs etc. but many of those dog owners don't care that their dogs' incessant barking bothers humans. Especially since the fireworks displays are few and far between and their dog barks every day... 🙂

lerlo Level 8 July 7, 2018
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I actually won the 2008-2009 Army volunteer of the year award for Junior Enlisted. And I received the Military Outstanding Volunteer Service Medal. I’ve volunteered with some dog rescues for a little while. Well, animal rescues but it was mostly directed towards dogs. But all in all, I think volunteering is great if you have the time.

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Coming from a communist society like China which believes in collectivism it makes sense that the idea of volunteering as a separate activity would seem strange to the professor doing the research. Volunteering services and giving charity are the other side of the capitalism society, it is part of the social contract that the elites provide funds and services for the majority of the people, partly out of altruism, partly out of a sense of superiority and mainly out of an instinct for self preservation. Recently that social contract has been broken by the elites and the work has fallen to the middle class which is also under siege and this is why society is collapsing along with the standard of living for all but a few. It's nothing new, it has happened many times throughout history and it usually ends badly for all concerned, particularly the elites.
You are lucky that you are on an island, I am living on my 4th island and the sense of independence and community is what makes them special.

The professor actually liked the model and wanted to bring it to China. One thing we have forgotten is that this site has been brought to us thanks to a benefactor.

@JackPedigo Although there is nothing to stop the benefactor from selling advertising on this site or adding a charge for the service once it gains enough members or from selling this site to another for profit.

@Surfpirate So far I have seen no advertising and, when the site started there was a mention of no advertising. This is on the fuzzy side of volunteering.

@JackPedigo Well it's free for now and that's great but the business model of offering a free service and then once it reaches a viable level of popularity, changing it to a pay site is not a new concept.

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I help people regularly, individually, and in ways and times of my own choosing. I have an aversion to being a supervised, faceless volunteer within a large organization.

I guess it depends on the amount and variability of volunteer opportunities. When using volunteers others should have a sense of appreciation and an understanding if the volunteer is unhappy they will leave.

I think volunteer opportunities and styles run the gamut from crushing to satisfying and ennobling.

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Volunteering assists governments in washing their hands of various types of responsibilities whilst providing businesses and organisations with cheap labour.

It has exploded in the UK. Posts that were previously paid and secure employment have been erased and replaced with the volunteers.

90% of volunteering is exploitation.

@MissKathleen

Exactly! Perfectly described.

Maybe in some parts of the world but not here nor in other places I have been. There is an island here called Patos. It is a state park and there is a lighthouse. It is part of our local National monument system. We do 6 work parties a summer, maintain a board and have lots of members who donate much time and money. The state park people have told us that without our help this place could not exist and they would be sorely overworked. Another lighthouse (Turn Point) is in the same situation.All the volunteer work I have done and seen have augmented the community and the individual. Did you see the link I included. A part of a community is helping each other and making the community more resilient which is especially important during these times. We need to start helping ourselves more.

@JackPedigo

I'm not criticising. In some countries governments would pay for the upkeep of things like that.

I'm always glad that people can come together.

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