Dating really sucks. The last date I had been on before the ex and I got together was in 2001 when I was 20 years old. Fast forward 18 years, a horrible marriage and two kids later and what I thought was bad at 20 is a nightmare at 38. I feel like honesty is a big issue. Why lie? I don't get it. Why put 10 year old pictures of yourself in dating sites? Why tell someone you are a "day trader" when you're really the manager at DQ? If you're going to put yourself out there than you need to put your REAL self out there. Not the made up version of yourself that you think people will like better. Finding someone to love (and harder yet, to love you back) is hard enough. Don't be the garbage that people have to wade through to find their happiness. End of rant, lol. Have a glorious day!
Agree 100% . If you don't feel you're good enough , then you need to make changes in who you really are . Read some self help books , make changes , go to the gym , make forever changes , take college courses , READ ! Develop a little ambition . Become more than you are . Move out of Mom's house . Get control of your anger issues . Join AA . Get off the drugs . Get control of your financial problems . Become someone you really are proud to be ! You can't love anyone else , until you learn to love yourself .
I'm with you. Dating really sucks. Especially online. Never been rejected more in my life. I'm still on a few sites out of pure addiction but I no longer expect much from it. And considering I am a shy introverted semi-hermit I don't think momma is gonna get any grand babies from this one lol
We have so much in common, except I'm still married (to a really great guy, but I'm not happy bc of different beliefs.....but that's a whole other post) going on 16 years. I would love to be able to date and do what I want and go out with who I want. I hope everything works out for you =)
Agreed. I'm still learning this dating thing. My friends that are girls have a fear that girls will use me because I'm so honest and truthful. I'm too old to be playing damn games. Tell someone who you are and what you like and have fun. They make it so complicated today. Finding a nonreligious girl here in Florida is like pulling teeth from a gator. I'm a happy person tho. Keep pushing. I've deleted all dating sites. I'm kinda tired of the games. Girls don't even know how to act when I open the damn door for them. Smh. Ok my rant is done as well. Thanks for the morning purge?