Why do women want to erase and cut all ties to their ex-boyfriends even when they broke up mutually and on good terms? E
I think it's because their nature is to bring everything they got to a relationship and when it's over, their nature dictates that they have to take everything away. The next guy will get the lot. At least for a while. Because I think it is their nature, I don't doubt their sincerity.
Sometimes you need a clean break for the first few months to a year. Then you can go back and be friends later. Whenever I have tried to be friends right after a break up, it had never gone well. One or both of us are having lots of feelings over how things ended and those feelings need to be processed before communicating again.