Most of the respondents are guys on this, but I have a slightly different take. It may be true that we are clueless, but it would help if our partners would give us a clue. Help me learn your body. Teach me what gets your motor going. I'm sure I'm not in the minority in that the thing that gives me the most satisfaction is knowing that I'm giving my partner the most satisfaction possible. I'd love to know, beyond any doubt, that she's fulfilled.
I know it's tempting to say that guys don't actually want to learn. But I've been around many women who flippantly say, "Yeah, if he don't work immediately, I'm out. I ain't gonna teach him how to please me." I don't know how prevalent that attitude is, but I'm guessing it's not uncommon.
I will say this on this subject, this is something i love to do, even if i suck at it ,id rather suck at it then have the attitude of oh... ill never do that . Its disgusting. Thats an awful Attitude. Most women love to have oral sex performed on them. Honestly i have not come across to many that don't like it, in fact most love this idea!
Mostly true I would say.
However, sex is a team event...well for me it is a solo event but it is supposed to be a team event.
Blaming someone else is always convenient but ultimately your pleasure is up to you. After all nobody cares as much as about your feeling of fulfillment as you. I mean ideal partners should but lets be real...there aren't that many of those out there on either side for anyone. If you can't get a working strategy discussed and cleared up you probably need a new teammate. You can't dance for both partners if you don't know the steps
Partner selection is everything. I mean you can only be with someone that doesn't do it for you for so long...seems shallow but it really isn't