Husband is Catholic I am me. We are going to pick up his new Harley tomorrow. I will be riding my bike also. He wants to pray before we leave for safe travels. I like the saying Ride or Die. What should I do?
Let him pray while you check your profile.
Let him do whatever he wants but that doesn't mean you have to
Offer to lead the prayer, "Ride or Die. Amen."
When he starts to pray rev your engine, stop and wait for him to start once more before doing it again. Tell him you're praying to the Machine Gods of Old and they require a sacrifice of fuel and smoke to pay for safe travels. When he says there was no smoke, start doing donut burnouts.
Go ahead and let him pray if he likes, you don't have to pray with him. If you want to say ride or die just wait till he's done and then say it, you both get what you want =)
I agree with folks who say just quietly wait for him to finish his conversation with his invisible friend, but you might ask him to ponder later if there were to be an accident, would it mean that he didn’t pray hard enough? Or if it’s just god’s will then why bother praying at all?
P.s. Congrats on the new bike!
When people want to pray it doesn't hurt anything unless they want to do it to disrupt traffic or impose it on others.
I support it with the condition that they include me OUT. As long as Catholics squeeze their beads as discreetly as they squeeze each others' or their own genitalia, its no biggie.
As someone said "live fast, die young and leave a good looking corpse"
I am sort of your mirror image in this situation. My wife is Catholic, and I am me. However, I call my wife a Jack-Catholic, as she claims to believe but doesn't attend church except for very rare occasions usually on holidays. I also never see her pray outside of these occasions. So I am not your exact mirror, but in your position I would just let him pray and use the time to mentally focus on the ride. Think about your route, destination, anything that you may have left behind, etc.. In other words, he is using the time to focus on what he thinks is important and so should you. Stay safe out there, the cages are out to kill you!
Him saying a prayer for safe travels is really no different than exclaiming "Ride or Die!" or "Hi-yo Silver!" or anything else. It's his way of making himself feel like it's time to hit the road. Getting pumped up, like Go Team!
But...I'd definitely consider having some serious conversations about these things at a quiet, private, appropriate time. Gently asking or directing the comments at fictional people, "Do you / they really believe that prayers work? What do you / they think happens without prayer? Does god not know he should protect you, doesn't want to unless he's asked first, have a plan but then change his mind because you prayed?....Just curious to see if from your / they're point of view."
Well my fellow bikers, the only rule that really matters is that if your gut feeling tell you that you should not get on that bike for whatever reason then you listen. It has nothing to do with prayers. All and all, ride safe and keep the rubber down !!
No prayer can help him if he chose to buy a Hardley Donothing.
I have a Harley of my own. I love to ride.