Your Profile is and should indicate whom you are, what you stand for and what you’re interest are... I’m a member on match.com and after viewing the picture I immediately go to the profile...I sometimes go to the profile first....in some cases after reviewing the profile if they are interested in religion I don’t review the picture, I simply move on...

Well said.

Some are Looking at Profiles Hun

After reading this post, and reading your profile, I just had to say something. I think what I've gotten from it, is a better understanding of how I need to structure my bio. When it comes right down it I just don't think that I'm a typical guy. I'm sapiosexual, or at least I look for relationships where their common interests and shared intelect. I'm straightish or heteroflexible, I'm a switch and don't play well with dominant guys, or dominant women for that matter but I also don't feel that I'm submissive. I tend to side with feminists, a left-leaning centrist. I'm married leaning towards relationship anarchist kitchen table polyamory. I'm an a anti-theist agnostic student of shamanism.

There quite a few other tags I could probably add in there but that in itself rules me out in the books of most women on dating sites. Of all of them I think OKC's probably the best because of the in-depth profile maker and questions that are offered up to be answered. I don't really know what I'm trying to say here other than that I am empathize with your position.

This man has nothing to defend the other men in this world. My 63 years have not met many good ones.

Some of us do indeed put a lot of thought into what we present to the world, and it is discourteous for someone to ignore it - especially if they are interested in us as a potential date or partner. My 'profile' is a work in progress; I'll type something, then ignore it awhile, then return to see if I like it, or if it needs changing. It is there to be READ, please and thank you!

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The biggest problem with being a Sapiosexual is that the people that don't know what it means and won't look it up are still hitting on you. As far as the rest of your rant, you are probably much more than entitled to the indignation. I am never quiet about my political stands except at family functions (got a ton of righties) and tonight someone I thought had been paying attention asked me what I thought about Trump. So men are not the only ones that don't pay attention. Again my heartfelt condolences.

Eh, it's the same offline too. Republicans should see by my bumper stickers that we have nothing in common.

Vent noted. Lol. Keep in mind their support of the current administration tells you a lot about their level of intelligence. Chances are they don't read your profile (If they can read.) As for the religious, many of them are brainwashed into believing that they're doing you a favor by leading you to their god. Hang in there @CaroleKay somewhere there's a love just for you.

If a man actually did read your profile and feel attraction for you, he'd have to be 1. educated enough to both read and understand what you're saying 2. know enough about the movie business and art to appreciate your accomplishments 3. feel secure enough in his own worth not to want to put you down to make you even with him.

People usually are attracted to those they feel are similar to them, who they deserve, or who have the same social status and or talents. Since most men aren't your equal, if they did read your profile they'd be intimidated...if they had enough intelligence to even vaguely comprehend it.