Ethical non-mongamy. I'm single but I've always been happiest with myself and my relationship when I've been dating a girl who also desires ethical non-mongamy. I'm not the polyamory type but more the sexual non-monogamy type (some my say swinger lifestyle). Who else is an ethical non-monogamy person? How long have you been this way and how did you realize this was for you? Do you think that there will ever be a time when our relationship choice will be accepted by the majority of the population? Do any of your friends and/or family know? What kind of non-monogamous relationship do you desire? Had anyone read "Sex at Dawn"?
I kind of feel like my choice to have non monogamous relationships is viewed similar to my atheism with respect to the judgement i get from others in society.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I would say this is pretty spot on for me as well. I have always been this way I guess. I've never felt like one person could ever fully satisfy me sexually
coralisthree
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Aug 20, 2018
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Have you and your partner always been non monogamous? I find it hard to meet an attractive woman who wants non monogamy. Then again I'm a Male unicorn. Bummer
I find it interesting that you're the only person who responded to this post and liked it. Even in the atheist community there are not very many of us.
The idea of fucking one woman for the rest of my life makes me want to shoot myself in the head! ?
@StrongHappySilly my ex wanted to be monogamous, so we were, and I was miserable and horny all the time. My current partner and I started as a 1 night stand lol and we just decided that as long as we meshed and enjoyed each other that we could give an actual.... I don't even know what to call him. For vanilla people I say he's my "boyfriend, not boyfriend". For those a little more sexually liberated he's my "Sir" or my "Daddy".
@coralisthree i like the idea of being a stag sometimes...and other times having a cuckqueen. I've turned to performing in porn a bit. That's been the best way to meet people like me. I love the peeps in porn... well most of them anyway. There are d-bags in every industry.
Too bad you and I aren't from the same part of the midwest. I'd love to meet you. You're very interesting. Here in St. Louis we're considered part of the bible belt. Yuk!
@coralisthree i fell like the more common part of society tries to put me in a box...sex with one person the rest of my life. I think the are more people out there like us that cheat because they're not allowed to be non monogamous. I know me and if i got in a monogamous relationship I'm likely to cheat, but I don't want to hurt anyone by cheating. I can't pretend to be who I'm not and sexual monogamy is not for me. Best to be up front about it too find a better match.
@StrongHappySilly that's exactly how I feel. I would have to find an extra special person to make me even think about monogamy again. I do wish you lived closer
@coralisthree well I work for an airline. If i sher get an overnight in Minneapolis I'll reach out to you!
@coralisthree stl no one elsehad commented or liked or not liked this post. Just us. Its lonely out there! Hard to believe that it of all these people there isn't more than just us
@StrongHappySilly I agree. So many people have misconceptions about non-monogomy, polyamory, and the bdsm lifestyle. Absolutly hit me up if you end up here, I'll show you around
@coralisthree - That's My girl. 
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