What do you guys say to people at funerals?
It depends which funerals and which people.
The last funeral I went to was a real laugh. We took the piss out of the deceased, told humerous anecdotes about his life and had right good piss-up afterwards.
And he wouldn't have expected anything else.
The one before was a more sombre occasion, an elderly neighbour, but also a celebration of his life.
And no mention of any sort of god at either.