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Been feeling a bit lonely lately. I know that is foolish as I have my wonderful wife and I am socially awkward, but I miss having friends. Not, that I guess looking back on it, that I ever actually had. I have had acquaintances but I have always been just a bit different and open minded for those I grew up with and those few that I have an actual friendship with live several li states away.

Sorry. Just feeling sorry for myself and throwing a pity party.

KDrake 5 Sep 16
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Maybe you'll make some like-minded friends here.

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There's a difference between feeling sad, and throwing a pity party. This looks like feeling sad... It's okay to feel sad. We're meant to "need" others. While I'm agnostic, I welcome all ideas that seem "real." And Rumi says: The cure for pain is in the pain... I think he's right. We face that struggle head-on... and see where it leads us.

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Are you new to your neighborhood? I have an idea...see if there's a Humanist organization near you. You'll find lots of new friends there...and they're not religious! Yayyy!

Nearest one is 300 miles away. I wish there was one here.

@KDrake Well, that's difficult! Have you thought about writing to that Humanist group and asking if they've any suggestions?

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If you have friends in other states, emulate them where you live.

UUNJ Level 8 Sep 16, 2018
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You can have anything you want. The catch is you have to invest yourself into it. I’ll bet you are a quite likable person, and there is probably no reason why everyone wouldn’t love you. Want a friend, be a friend.

I like to think that I am an excellent friend. I always try to think of the other person, be there when they are in need, lend a shoulder when try need to cry or vent, help in any way I can, listen and be thoughtful. It just never seems to be returned.

I know that everyone is busy and caught up in their own life, but I can't be the only one that likes an occasional intelligent conversation.

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