I'm un available now, but as as I through with the antibiotics the doctor says I can date again.
A long time ago in the 1990's, we (my partner of the time and I) had a friend who was also gay, who liked to dress as a woman, go to straight bars and make out with straight guys. He was never caught or found out. We called it "Playing 'The Crying Game'" after a movie (The Crying Game) of that time period.