You know I spent 7 years living in USA (my boys are actually American) and my biggest takeaway from the vast majority of people I met was how forgiving and big hearted most Americans are. If that man had said, " I can not believe that boy was me, but it was. I am deeply ashamed of my adolescent self and I bed forgiveness from Dr. Ford and all the other women in my life. I intend to spend the rest of my life working to right this wrong and making it my most sincere endeavour to work for my fellow Americans". Then I bet you guys would have opened your heart to him and allowed him to have another chance. But he didn't he squirmed and threw a tantrum..sounded mean hearted and cold.