Dialogue and debate are not the same. The whole point here is to find people more likely to be compatible.

how will you know who is or isn't compatible if you're not open to dialogue? i know you said debate, but you can't control how people react to your posts, or to your comments on posts, and sometimes debates happen. maybe a compatible woman wants to see how you handle yourself in such situations. maybe she wants to know about your beliefs, which means putting them forward, which means risking controversy. it is possible to engage in what could be called debates without being pugnacious (although you can't necessarily control how pugnacious others get) but it doesn't have to be all about your religious (or political) beliefs. we have all kinds of topics here.

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To spark interest in you by the Women members,post and comment on postings,revealing some of your personality,like,want's & needs. Put yourself on several forums and groups,stir up debates,too.