You should of gone with him... ? Could go either way, was he just hanging out? or was he getting really involved?

There are a few questions you should be asking yourself first. Is that a true statement or is this person only using friends as an excuse?
What are your thoughts about someone going to a strip club who you have feeling for?
How long have you been together?
Ultimately, strip clubs only offer an illusion. A very expensive illusion. Last time I went to one I felt really weird. This was like 7 or 8 years ago. But I couldn’t understand why certain women would treat themselves as an object. It’s very degrading in my opinion. But I see couples going together and they have a great time. It’s really up to you. What are you willing to live with!

It's kind of weird. I understand it's a night out with the boys, and maybe that's all his friends do and he's "stuck" going with them if he wants to hang out with them at all, but if I'm with someone then why do I need to go to a strip club unless I'm going with her because we both get off on it? Is the guys desire for his woman gone? Is he not attracted to her anymore? I've been to a strip club a couple of times, but I was single. It can be interesting, but it's basically a tease unless some of the girls offer other services, which quite a few of them do.

Red flags, red G strings, what's the difference?

Just remember, you don’t pick up girls at strip clubs.

If it is the kind of place where customers can touch or be touched by dancers - huge red flag for me but you have to decide if it matters to you. I think this type of place is the norm in the USA. If they do lap dances and/or private rooms, then it basically is prostitution.

If it is the kind where the stippers stay on the stage and there is no touching, not a red flag necessarily. This was the norm in Vancouver, BC where I grew up.

Maybe he needs new friends...

I think it would depend on the guy and the strip club, and the friends. I had female friends when I was younger that went to strip clubs when they had boyfriends. Wasn't much of an issue..

It's a matter of what kinds of agreements and feelings you have. If you don't like it and have told him to stop and he goes anyway, that's a huge red flag. Some women don't mind their partner doing that if they come home aroused, and some women even encourage it. If you haven't told him how it makes you feel, do.

I'd be there with him. I lo e strip clubs

I never understood the mentality of "strip clubs are cheating" people can enjoy a plethora of bodies while still loving their s o. It makes my brain hurt.

Never been into the strip club phenom. My significant other always gave me all I can handle I guess. I reckon I was the "friend" that didn't went. The one always missing because he was in a club clubbing with his clubbing friends.

No. It's her job.....

Maybe, idk, did you ever go with? Would you have?

You had said that the relationship was over. If this is a red flag, then it was not the real issue(s)?

Yep! Sorry

Women are beautiful creatures.
A stripper has to eat just like the rest of us.