Good question… I bought 6 plots in the prettiest graveyard in Oregon, USA.. Got them in my 20’s. I’m not there anymore, but 3 thousand miles away. My oldest daughter recently described her plans to sprinkle my ashes in the coolest places we know. At the moment, and after hiking some ‘Blue Ridge’ last week, I’m nearly enthuasitic about returning to the earth ~

But yes, I visit, even search the gravesites of Ancestors … with some of their gravestone photos on my phone.. Dang, what happens when & if anyone goes searching for me? I’ve likely got a few more years, but it’s become a consideration.

I really don't care, I'll be dead. I've left instructions to donate my body to science or whatever they wish to do with it

Cremated, visit sites when possible. 300 miles away.

My preference would be cremation, but at that point I will no longer be using my body, so as long as all the donatable organs have been extracted what is done with the left overs is irrelevant.

If conditions are right I might stage a joyous and dramatic exit by performing a self-cremation. There are several advantages: escape the ridiculous fees of the funeral industry, avoid a huge hospital bill at the end, and thwart silly meddlesome bureaucrats.

I rather be barried and no i don't visit dead relatives.

Id prefer either cremation (funeral pyre would be cool if there was a legal avenue to do it, or safe enough way to get away with it.)

Or a natural burial where I become plant food for a tree or fungus. Or donate my whole body to science, the corpse farm for forensic science in Knoxville maybe. Id just prefer it not be pumped full of preservatives and stored hermetically sealed in a box on a massively poor use of land and resources like a cemetary. Everyone who wants to waste land like that and for golf courses should be forced to double up on the same plot.

My choice is cremation, I'll finally have that smoking hot body I have wanted. No I don't visit graves, nobody there!

I'm thinking cremate. It's all super expensive, anybody know a way around the price?

My sister informs me that I will be cremated and my ashes will sit next to my brother's on her shelf of the dead. If that makes her happy then, that's fine. At some point she'll have to duke it out with my son, I expect, but that's their problem.

I don't visit graves often. But, there were many times in the first year or so after my brother died that I wished he had spot where I could go. I didn't want to be around anyone else. I literally just wanted to go sit on his grave by myself and cry. But he was on my sister's shelf of the dead and "being with him" meant being around other people. Now, I like him being over there. Sometimes when we're chilling together we get him off the shelf and he "hangs out with us." I am very aware that he is not in his ashes. But, it's kind of comforting to have that physical reminder/placeholder.

Either packed in Natron salt and buried in the ground... Or make a huge funeral pire out of all my existing firewood and torch me off.

Yes... I visit Quantico National Cemetery every no and then to visit my parents.