I wrote the rest of this first but then thought it sounded a bit bad so I would like to preface this as we were both willing adults lol.

I met a lovely lady on a first date and I had her tied up like that in the first couple hours of meeting her. It was a very enjoyable time ?.

It has been a fantasy of mine to be tied up and interrogated by Dean Winchester, but it's just a fantasy. I don't think I would ever knowingly go for something like that.

Neither. Not saying these things arent fun but trust needs to be built up first before venturing into the BDSM territory.