Love this book, highly recommend! Understanding that we all have different ways we give and receive love, then being able to APPLY that to our relationships, is invaluable.

If you understand that, for example, your partner's lowest LL is "Gifts," and you give them a present and they don't react that excited, you can understand why. If you know their top LL is "Words of Affirmation," writing them a poem or a song will speak the most to them.

Knowing your LLs as well as your partner's is a game changer.

I just took the test...gifts, time, and touch were my top 3.

Thought this was a nonsense until I did it years ago. For receiving its Physical Touch and for giving its Acts of Service. I’m amazed at how accurately this reflects in my relationships.

Oopss.. forgot to share my results. I'm not too fond of recieving gifts to show me one loves me.

While I do appreciate it, I value quality time best. Even if we're sitting in the same room doing different things.

I think this is pretty accurate for me.

This test leaves out the one thing that’s more important to me than anything else (unless it is included in one of the groups; I haven’t read the book) CONVERSATION.

I'm not all that touchy-feely in general, but I very much enjoy a close embrace from my girl.

Acts of service. Words are good, but given how easy they are for some to generate and how easily misunderstood they can be, Ill take actions every time.

I think Chapman is a damned charlatan.
He preys on the insecurities and fears of people.

Here are my preferences to receive:

1. Quality time
2. Acts of service
3. Words of affirmation
4. Physical touch
5. Gifts

My preferences (most natural) for giving love :

1. Quality time
   2/3/4) Words of affirmation/Acts of service/Physical touch--tied
2. Gifts