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I read a statement today that said "Slut" is attacking women for their right to say yes, and "friend zone" is attacking women for their right to say no. I had never thought of it that way to be honest, but I personally agree. I also think this can apply to anyone and not just women but I think it is implied stronger towards women. I have already had someone throw the word "feminazi" out at me over this lol. Opinions?

BohoHeathen 8 Jan 28
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FemNazi is a Rush Limbaugh word puke. Has the same validity as anything spewed by Info Wars: none. As far as I’m conserned I don’t give a crap what people I have no reason to resepect or care about call me. I know my own values and respect input from those I care about. The rest can go suck wind.

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The "good guys" I know constantly grouse about women opting for the bad boys, while women complain about men who lie and don't communicate, or take advantage. But the 'good guys' don't see how they are assholes thinking themselves as good.

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It's all labeling, none of it respectful, some of it hateful as far as I'm concerned. Even "friend zone" carries a connotation of bitterness over unrequited affection.

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The women that have friend zoned me seem to have no problem asking me to fix everything in their lives and on their houses, as to the so-called sluts I'm making breakfast for one of them now. Being sexually uninhibited is one of the best traits any woman can have.

@HomeAloneSunday
As I said, women can take advantage of men friends in the same way.

@Gooniesnvrdie lucky you! I have never in my life met someone who “just wanted sex!” Must not hang out in the right places.

@HomeAloneSunday

Do you do anything for these nice guys?

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If I cared about the terms people choose to use to describe me, I would have folded years ago...it is on them, not me...any behavior can be labeled differently and have different meanings...a lot of words have lost their impact from overuse or misuse...I teasingly call some of my girlfriends sluts for having lots of sex...(jealous)...certainly not going to change their behavior nor how I feel about them...so why would name calling from strangers impact them?

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Also, when a woman rejects a man's advances, she's frigid, or a lesbian. Men are simply trying to preserve their pride.

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Many people think that women are easy targets and should always be told what and what not to do. Don't dress down, don't dress up. Don't leave children too late. Don't start a family too early. Etc. True it is not just women they also try it to a lesser extent with men. The answer is the same though, stop trying to be a woman or a man and just be you.

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I think my all-time favorite has been "ball-buster".
I take that to mean that I am being effective. I don't care how the
user means it.

I also completely agree with @HomeAloneSunday.
Women never win the sex war.
We are going to be demonized no matter what we do.

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I was told by a very fisty 75 year old woman that Slut was used by weak men about a woman who liked sex as much as a man! Given the stupidity that men can think and do, that seems about right.

BillF Level 7 Jan 28, 2019

Fisty? ? is she single?

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