FUQ: Frequently unasked questions: Swami Beyondananda [creationsmagazine.com]
Look at #2 which deals with orgasms

Dear Swami:
I have been happily married for 27 years, and I have always had a meal for my husband when he comes home from work — until recently. About two months ago, for no apparent reason, I lost all desire to cook. Just like that. This has been exasperating to my husband — and to me — but I just can’t bring myself to cook anymore. What’s going on?
Juana Cruz, San Luis Obispo, CA

Dear Juana:
Not to worry. It’ll pass. You’re just going through menupause.