Lucky you. It is a nightmare!!
Yes I recall and then finally I clicked with the right person. The upside is great but the downside is that if something should ever happen to my wonderful wife I don't know if I could recover from that loss. Life is about trade offs and you take the good with the bad.
@Surfpirate It's a crap shoot for sure. It's always best to try and keep a smile on your face and fuck 'em if they can't a joke.