Women tend to be cautious, and with good reason. Sometimes we need time in order to feel safe because, amazingly, people on the internet are not always what they appear to be! Impatience will make us even more wary and scare us away.

I think women are lik e that in real life too. Now that I'm thirty I think I'm starting to figure a few things out. But yeah this isn't like most sites where people just write profiles and see how they match up

There's this very slight chance, miniscule IMHO concerning you, that just a bit of online chatting makes them not want to meet in person. Absurd as that may sound it is a possibility.

not true. Met my Dan here in the Singles/Mingle/Chatroom. We have been living together for 9 months now.