Today my daughter read a post to me: "There will be a day when your mother sets you down and never picks you up again."  I am sure it is ment to be poignant however I took it as a challenge!  So I gave both of my adult children a bear hug and picked them up.   One more day.
I would never tell my mother such a poem she would use it as a catalyst to martyr herself and make her seem like some saintly, self-sacrificing mother. pfft
 demifeministgal
                                                
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                                                Apr 30, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    demifeministgal
                                                
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                                                Apr 30, 2019                                            
                                        sorry to hear that though I can empathize.  I cannot imagine reading that to my mom either.  I probably won't hear it from my daughter again after my response.  
I used to carry my son on my shoulders all of the time. For years after it stopped being a regular thingI would still do it on occasion. When he stopped asking to ride on my shoulders, I would occasionally ask him if he wanted to ride on my shoulders for old times sake. He never said no. The distance I could carry that little bugger became less each time. He is 12 now. It has been 2 years since I have carried him on my shoulders. I miss it terribly. Thank you for the post. He has got one more carrying if he wants it or not
 Heathenman
                                                
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                                                Apr 28, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    Heathenman
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 28, 2019                                            
                                        You go! Hopefully your son doesn't think your as strange as my kids did. LOL!
I can't read that "the Last Time" aloud without sobbing. It always hits home.
 crazycat329
                                                
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                                                Apr 28, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    crazycat329
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Apr 28, 2019                                            
                                        I'm a man and I feel the same way.
This hits me. When my son was 5, I slipped a disk in my back. One day I could pick him up, the next day I couldn’t. It took years to heal and by the time it did, he had grown too big to lift.
 A2Jennifer
                                                
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                                                Apr 28, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    A2Jennifer
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Apr 28, 2019