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Let’s get info from the people who do this for a living. This Ultrasound Technician says:

“So here’s the thing:

This Alabama-abortion-ban is a big deal, in a very bad way. Ohio, Missouri, Georgia, Mississippi, Arkansas, Kentucky… I’m looking at you too, but we’re going to focus on Alabama. If you’ve been living under a rock, let me catch you up. Alabama Governor, Kay Ivey, just signed a total abortion ban into law, the most restrictive law in the United States. The law will ban abortion at every stage of pregnancy for every reason.

This is not okay, not reasonable, and definitely not acceptable.

If you don’t know me well, maybe you don’t know what I do for a living. I’m an ultrasound technologist. My colleagues and I look at babies in every stage of pregnancy every day. I also work in a high risk unit. My unit and I look at babies and mothers in varying states of mental and physical health. If you think an abortion ban sounds good, then I am a good person to ask about why it isn’t.

So let me tell you:

About the woman whose baby developed with no skull, and the brain just floating around. Her baby still had a heartbeat, and she would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman whose baby has a rare chromosomal condition called T13. Her baby’s organs grew outside its body, and had a cleft palate so bad that there was no nose. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman whose blood pressure is spiking so high that she passes out and is likely to stroke out before her baby is born. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman with such a severe form of hemophilia that giving birth will probably be fatal to both her and the baby. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the 13 year old whose school isn’t allowed to teach her science-based sex-education, so she didn’t know how to prevent pregnancy or STIs, but whose body is not developed enough to carry to term without being damaged. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman who was raped by a friend who wanted to “make sure she got home safely”. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman who has PCOS so only has periods every 3-4 months and can’t find a birth control that works for her. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman whose abusive partner removed the condom without telling her (it’s called stealthing, and it happens more frequently than you’d think). She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman with the cornual ectopic pregnancy that isn’t reliably in the uterus, and could grow to a size that will kill her. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman who has two kids she can barely feed already, and whose birth control just increased in price. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the 18 year old who just started college and is going to be the first graduate of the family if she can just stay in school. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the woman whose IUD slipped slightly and is now endangering both her and the pregnancy it was designed to prevent. She would not be able to access abortion.

About the many, many, many women who just don’t want to be pregnant for reasons that are their own. Health issues, abusive relationships, financial issues, social issues. They would not be able to access abortion.

Some of these might sound like reasonable exceptions to you. And you would be correct. But no one should get to decide what happens with another person’s body, not even to save a life. You need written permission from a corpse before life saving organs can be taken from them. You cannot be forced to donate blood, no matter how dire the situation. And no one else should get to decide what a woman does with her body, end of story.

But it’s not the end of the story, is it? Because here’s the kicker: if you consider abortion to be a murder (and some people genuinely believe that!) then miscarriage can be second degree murder. And this is already happening all over the world - El Salvador, Ecuador, and the US of A. Women are being jailed for miscarriages and stillbirths because they might have done something to cause it. If you start down this path of jailing women and doctors for making healthcare decisions that affect no one but themselves, then you get women who don’t go to a doctor for a safe procedure and instead order pills online or use whatever metal instruments they can find to end their own pregnancies. Women who are honestly experiencing a miscarriage (which is medically called a spontaneous abortion, just fyi) will not go to their doctor for help. They will bleed out on their bathroom floors or die of septic shock. And I haven’t even talked about how this will disproportionately affect women of color, LGBTQA+ women, or trans men. This isn’t about the “sanctity of life” anymore. It’s about controlling women.”

HippieChick58 9 Dec 17
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The solution for this is to vote these ass holes out of office and keep them out of office.

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Thank you for this. I've saved it. It's a reservoir of items that I will use in future pro-choice arguments.

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I would imagine many are moving out of state if they can manage it.

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Evangelicals made it a big issue based on religion as a method to control women, it horrendous , only my religion counts nothing else matters . There is no passages in bible covering this just narrow minded prejudice and arrogance of believers

bobwjr Level 10 Dec 17, 2019
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It has always been about controlling women but now it has the added bonus of pumping up right wing political candidates.

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This is truly one of the very best postings I've seen on this subject.
The only explanation for what's going on with the newly resurrected abortion laws is that deep down - our society (which has been primarily patriarchal) still believes that women need to be "controlled and or punished". All this new found sexual freedom....financial independence....educational opportunities. Sure - go ahead and feel good about women finally having the opportunity to achieve all of that and more. But in the end - society has figured out the ultimate way to keep women from being truly independent. This is not about sanctity of life.....not even close.

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As a society we have become pretty twisted. They honor a man who's son just killed an endangered animal, sanctity of life my ass. These people keep elected officials in office that refuse to do anything significant about gun violence, sanctity of life my ass. I could go on but the post really does say it all - it is about controlling women through what they can and can't do with their minds and bodies. And the really disgusting part is OTHER women going along with it.
It really is no different than the Muslim Sharia Law these religious zealots so loathe and fear.

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Thank for that!💓

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Going back to Just like it was before Roe v. Wade, ask any former ER nurse about the horrors of "self-help" measures taken by desperate women (& their parents, husbands etc) before then.

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Dark side. I do not want to be around these people or at these places. It is lots of negative energy.

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