Think of Herb Alpert & Tijuana Brass playing the theme song for THE DATING GAME ....

U rock sandra . Flirting shortens the time to know each other . Age is just a number .

I'm pretty bad myself. Especially online, I kinda need to see the person to read nonverbal cues.

The art of flirting is to create inclusive scenarios that are exclusive ..".knowing" jokes that get a laugh two of you can share...that opens the door to closer comfort and you can connect.. i used to move furniture and loved the flirty frankness that would open up as soon as you formally introduced youself and then calmly take over the space as a worksite...we had a standing lottery on how fast the lady of the house wiuld be holding on to my arm...or shoulder..and the amount of times ive had to hug all the ladies of the house goodbye was awesome. Sadly a knee injury robbed me of my special powers..lucky i revelled in it while it lasted.

I must have flirted when I was younger, but I don't remember it. I wouldn't try it now, it would be so pathetic.

If I feel like flirting, because it can be Very enjoyable, I do not spoil it for myself with unnecessary judgements.

I don't know how to flirt any more. I was divorced early last year. I met my girlfreind and simply kissed her! Now we just give each other hell! I guess that might be flirting.

Lol I suck at it too, never was great with forced small talk, think i was always too nervous, so i just clam up and came across not interested or too desperate awkward discussions that weren't really relevant. Having confidence goes a long way..I just never had any.

Can't win if you don't play. There is no pressure, you just have to get used to rejection. Most guys like the pressure taken off of them by the woman making the first move. My guess is you won't get turned down too often. Just a suggestion but normally if you say something involving the circumstances you're in that usually works or a compliment. That shouldn't make you sound too crazy and, when that someone is also attracted to you nothing you say will be crazy.

if you wanna practice I could stand to improve my flirting too.

I'm a pretty compulsive flirt. It's gotten worse as I've gotten older, more non-threatening and better at it. Not flirting-with-intent, just more open about appreciating the beauty of those around me.

And I’m just plain terrible at it!