Agnostic.com

32 11

I’m a lovely young lady in my 60’s. Never been married, no kids. I hope to meet someone before I die. No one has time for reality. It breaks my heart.

MissRogan 5 Apr 2
Share

Enjoy being online again!

Welcome to the community of good people who base their values on evidence and appreciate civil discourse - the social network you will enjoy.

Create your free account

32 comments

Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.

9

Welcome to the asylum. Enjoy your stay.

8

I don't understand the no one has time for reality bit? I don't have time for people that aren't authentic; they bore me after a while: and I rarely even bother pointing out when I know someone is lying these days. But better to be single than stuck with the wrong person is my mantra.

What I am saying is no one will meet in person. Reality!

Oh I see, thanks 🙂

7

I am surprised you lasted 60years withoug getting married. It is not a train smash and is overated anyway. As long as you have friends, maybe some with benefits, you don't need more. Cultivate friends,they are always there for you.

6

Welcome to the community. May you enjoy the journey. I have not met that special 'someone' here' but I have met 'special ones'. I do not give advice, as not many follow it, but I can share my opinion and this is it..."Trust Love. Relax in the flow. Let it all go. Trust in the now, and let love show you how." author unknown. I cannot take credit for these words, but I can now own them and make them my own, just as you can do the same. I hope you meet someone soon, but in the meantime, just enjoy the journey.

Nena Level 6 Apr 2, 2018
6

I wish you love.

5

BTW, I travel quite a bit and am in the LA area regularly. If ever you want to grab a cup of coffee or tea, send me your phone number (privately via message) and I'll call you next time I'm in your neck of the woods. Or if ever you are in the Temecula Wine Country area, let me know, so we can share a glass of fermented grape juice. 😉

Nena Level 6 Apr 2, 2018

Thanx, How nice. I don’t have the hang of this site yet. Seems I’ve missed some correspondence. A person called me RUDE. That’s charming!

@MissRogan I'm glad you can see the positive/bright side of things. Don't worry...be happy...you'll get the hang of it soon enough. Send me your number via private message...maybe we can do brunch tomorrow?

4

Welcome lovely young lady.
I am a sarcastic grumpy old man, but I am honest about it.
I live for reality, it is after all absolute.
That said for relaxation I am into fantasy and sci fi, pretty sure I keep them seperate.
Always up for a chat on things that are real, But being across the world as I am, it must be virtual.
enjoy

4

I hope that is in your very near future.

4

I don't understand the point of your post.

It was an introduction

@MissRogan You will win points, and help us get to know you if you write your profile and answer all the profile questions.

3

I'm also a woman in my sixties and while I've been married and have 2 adult children (and 2 grandkids!) I've never been in love. I think I'd rather have been free to fall in love, then stuck in an unhappy marriage and an unhappy relationship, except for my kids/grandkids.

You might click the "Nearby" tab to filter responses by location. If you are looking for romance, it seems several contributers to this site are willing to travel if there is a meeting of the minds online.

I'd say this site is mostly an online community for folks based in reality, and if dating comes out of an online friendship, great! If not, then at least there are good conversations and moral support for issues that maybe only agnostics can understand.

3

You did very well for your self. I also never married and I got over it along time ago. I like who I am and I also like people who are not afraid to be themselves. Many people faked it and led a misguided existance because they were afraid of standing up as themselves. The be all of my relationships was when I told them that I only wanted to get married once.

Pardon me? I don’t want to B alone.

3

Welcome.

3

Hello, and welcome!

2

Well gang, I came here and stated what I’m looking for. Weird responses. I wonder, is there an LA group, since agnostics.com is a community.

2

I’ve been alone since the age of forty . I’m 57 now. I’ve pretty much given up. If someone comes into my life that’s great, if not I know I’ll be okay.

I’m very active and have been FOR DECADES. I do everything alone and I HATE IT.

@MissRogan I've also live alone for decades but I have amassed a lifetime's backlog of unfinished projects and hobbies to keep me busy till my last day. As I live in the middle of nowhere (ND) the prospects of finding a compatible atheist in this black landscape dominated by the superstitious is dismal.

On the brighter side, you remind me of a lovely woman my twice widowed grandfather (active farmer) found at his local senior center. She had been recently widowed and they really hit it off very nicely. It was like watching high-school kids in love as they held hands, smiles at each-other and kissed each other often and genuinely appeared to gain much joy by making their partner happy. They went on an ocean cruise ships and she moved into his enormous farm house for a few months until her children (Catholic) convinced her she was living in sin because her dead (Catholic) husband was waiting for her in heaven. After that she moved back into her own house and they only saw each other during day hours and the public acts of affection stopped.

I hope you find what you are looking for.

2

Join the clan ! In order to meet someone, try and stay open to the possiblity that it CAN happen - at any age. There's a lot of good lonely people out there, try and locate a target rich environment, or activity that you enjoy ...

2

Stay open and honest, Corinne. 🙂 Those qualities are refreshing

No other way 2 B.

@MissRogan when I left my comment ABOVE, it was after I'd read your original post and only your original post. It sounded forthright. That was 12 hours ago. Now, I've returned and read the comments of members and your responses and this is what I think after getting the bigger picture:

Weird responses from US? Sure, there's a margin of rudeness, but, it's slim. I hope you read back through YOUR responses on this post. You are dismissive of some really kind gestures and rude to others who offered thoughtful suggestions. You may be depressed and if that's the case, I sincerely hope you get the help you need. And, if depressed, I hope you forgive me for my next comment, but you really come across as a diva who thinks she's all that.

2

Welcome. Good luck in your endeavors!

2

You are so beautifull

FAIZ Level 5 Apr 2, 2018
1

When I finally stopped worrying about it and just built a life that made sense to me, it finally happened! Just be you, be active, be willing to be a friend. I could happen to you, too.

1

Welcome to the community. There has been some dating here - depends how far you travel and how open you are.

1

Welcome to the tribe

Rosh Level 7 Apr 2, 2018
1

Welcome Miss! I'm in my 60's and around for conversation if you so desire. I have a realistic question. Why is marriage so important to so many atheists? Isn't it a biblical union that's blessed by a deity? How many people see the reality of marriage in that it's a legal binding contract recognized by the state so that in the event of divorce or death, personal items can be divided or assigned? We need a license!

I want to be a couple with someone who loves me. I’m almost 65, it’s really never happened. I’m all alone

1

Reality is vastly overrated.

When U R all alone, it’s the only thing to cling to.

@MissRogan Hmmm. A thought to ponder. I admit sometimes reality sucks for me and I avoid it.

1

Welcome

Write Comment
You can include a link to this post in your posts and comments by including the text q:48426
Agnostic does not evaluate or guarantee the accuracy of any content. Read full disclaimer.