Its fathers day but what ever, YOU DAD YOU SADIST MUTHER FUCKER 
i respect mothers day more. I'm getting tired of my dad ringing the phone I'm not going to pick up. my dad bunched my mom in the face in the 80's for protecting my brother from him. and one time my mom was pregnant with my older sister and he said she wasn't allowed to eat the food he bought. let him rot in that smelly rest home
. revenge is a dish best served cold . I'm such a nut job. if he ever dies im not going to his funeral i rather piss on his head stone. I'm such a savage little shit.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I’ve heard several men say their fathers’ beating them did them no harm.
Their saying it did them no harm is exactly the harm it did. It allowed them to do the same.
I’ve also heard several men angrily say the law now prohibits:
- what was done to them, or
- what they did.
They did not clarify, nor did I ask them to clarify.
I live in a veterans home with ~600 elderly men and ~100 elderly women.
yvilletom
Level 8
June 21, 2020
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You need to get counseling! You have given your dad complete control over your life Now......this is just wasteful!
AnneWimsey
Level 9
June 21, 2020
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His dad took control, denied it to him. Your words reveal your ignorance of what he faces.
Ummm, my Dad raped me from age 2 to when my Mom caught him at about age 4...she went on to have 2 more kids with him & watched me like a hawk because I was "bad". They both used the buckle end of belts on all 4 of us frequently. You know Nothing! I have not nor will not let them have power over me, took excellent care of Mom in her Alzheimers' years....the past can stay far away in the past where it has no power to mess up the present if you only make that decision! And it Is a decision, Enabling him does Nothing but leave him in despair!
I can understand wanting to have nothing to do with your father, but it sounds like you have given him free rent in your head where he can chuckle over your fury. You need to be careful you don't allow him to destroy your life with your anger.
Cyklone
Level 7
June 21, 2020
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“...have given him free rent in your head....” is the cruellest of metaphors. He has a very painful memory in his head.
Anger is a source of energy and he will need energy to repair the harm his father did.
@yvilletom Perhaps, but it seens accurate in this case. I've been where he is and anger maintained for too long is very corrosive and that seems evident in the post. I think the ultimate insult is utter indifference. It seems from your other post that you too may still be buried in your anger. I understand that deeply, as does @annewimsey so don't dismiss what we say, but understand that we have walked through this fire and found healthy ways out of it.
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