If you clearly don't like someone, why would you still "view" ALL their posts and not even comment on them? Very recently, I have accepted the fact that no matter how nice, kind, understanding, caring, explanatory, etc. I may be, some people will still NEVER like me, and that's fine; however, why still creep on all my social media stuff? Not that it matters too much, but just a curious thought.
This goes for people in communities like this and other ones where you can see who has viewed your posts. Not anyone who you are close to personally, or even really know.
Then by your own logic you must be a "creeper" (well, creep on posts as you put it anyway), as even though you made it clear to me that you don't like me much and yet I see your avatar pop up frequently both on my posts here and on the other site, and you haven't commented on them recently. Not that it bothers me, it doesn't, I'll just conclude maybe you were just curious and visited a certain post of mine to check out the link shared. Or maybe you had another motive for doing such? Doesn't matter, I don't consider anyone a creeper for merely visiting my posts. Regarding others not liking you no matter how kind you are to them, maybe perhaps they didn't perceive you as being the kind type, would that automatically make them wrong and you right? Just curious, I'm trying to understand your reasoning. I don't blame you for taking the cautious route, I've been catfished on here before, but sometimes someone visiting your posts could just be an innocent thing.
I figure about 5% of the people I interact with here dislike me. That seems to be the norm for life in general.
Well for me it will be boredom or escapism or just curious to see what's on said person's profile the way I am with other strangers' profiles. Not saying I will view ALL such a person's posts as I end up blocking people I don't like for staying stupid or bigotted or ignorant shit. I think for us women, men can still dislike us as a person, but be attracted to us and hence continue lurking due to said attraction. It makes me think of butthurt wyte guys that feel rejected by me in online dating and pick a fight with me or harass me via messages. Basically, do not like me, but still wanna do me. *eye roll
It's called being an asshole. Unfortunately that seems to be a profession many people excel at.
There are some people here that like to "monitor " posts.. Like police.. Don't worry about it. They aren't socialable..
I admit to being the occasional lurker on social media in general. I may go days without posting or commenting and sometimes I just have nothing significant to add to the post or conversation and choose to observe. I do see how it might be a bit annoying.
I wouldn’t allow that to annoy me. I have noticed certain people who do the same thing on my posts. I find it rather amusing that they either find my posts so uninteresting or unremarkable that they can find nothing to say about them, or they think they are so good that they’re struck dumb by their brilliance! I prefer to assume the latter, because they keep coming to view them!!