Just respond "how'd you get so lucky?"

I got a few of those on a dating site. I suppose the guy thought I would feel sympathy for him -- sorry fella, the only person I feel sympathy for is your wife.

I never used that one even when it was the truth.

Girl. Did you block him??

Are you sure he said, I'm "in" and not, I was in? If he said I'm in, then he's an ass and no, I can't imagine many women are looking for a cheater as a partner. What an ass-hat! He makes men look bad.

One line i hear women recount is also, "he says it is JUST a unit", when guys like tht refer to their families ... properly grim ... damaging.

Yes they do! Suppose there is always the response, "your wife wasn't sexless last time me and my husband were with her"

There are some on here.

"Oh? Then tell your wife to call me up, because, I hear she's in a sex less marriage, too." And I bet you wouldn't of even had to block him...hehe

@Blindbird *"I'd think you'd work on your marriage before trying to drag others into the situation as well wouldn't you? This wasn't a poly situation, he specifically stated that his wife didn't know and thats why he doesnt do "dates".
How much contempt do you have to have for another person to think they'd be ok with being blatantly used like that?

I have been approached by some men in committed, monogamous relationships, as well as a few women. Before Craigslist did away with their personals category, I saw some men looking for married women 'in similar situations", for just sex. Like you said, they shouild work on their relationship, or do the honest thing and get divorced.

I've been told the reasons for not getting a divorce are not wanting to pay alimony, fear that the wife would make it dififcult to see their children, etc... I suspect that loss of status is another reason.

Well put re: "not trying to drag others into the situation". I know a single woman who fell in love with a married man on a social networking site they both used to frequent. Supposedly, he loved her, too. He was married, kids, the whole shebang. To make a long story shorter, she came away with a broken heart and much less money in her bank account after he abandoned her, and he went on with life as usual.

I don't, but I hear it a LOT. That and, "We're in an open marriage." Or, "I just want to talk."

Sure.

They exist to remind me why I'm okay single.

Sounds like he needs to tackle that problem with his own hands....

If he's in one then he should end the marriage or try to do something about it. If he has kids I understand how hard that is but that's all the more reason to go to counseling and state what a serious problem this is. It's literally putting the family unit at risk. However if he's chatting up girls then basically he's a coward and its not your problem. I had a relationship I had to end just before marriage over that very topic(he was the one who wasn't interested). I'm happy I did and never looked back.

Apparently! Go figure.

Yes

I used to hear it all the time. Worst pick up line ever.

I was in one of those

I can't believe people still use that line

Sounds like you don't. Good for you!