There are many ships going to many ports, but not a single one goes to where life is not painful." -Pessoa
Wow that is beautiful, sad, and so achingly true.
No life is without pain. We don't need to court pain, but if we survive it without too much damage, if provides a great contrast. Years ago, I had severe back pain for 14 years and had back surgery. Shortly after I recovered, I encountered a friend, who asked, "How's it going, Walt?" I answered, You have no idea how great it feels just to feel normal again!"