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Why might a man and a woman who are:

  1. At least sufficiently intelligent

  2. Perfect for one another

end up never, ever finding each other?

DZhukovin 7 Apr 16
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I think if we apply:

  1. Occam's Razor and

  2. the Mediocrity Principal,

I think it's pretty clear that the answer is

  1. Velociraptors.

Answer fits post. Well done.

6

Life is random.

5

So if they're unintelligent, they will find each other?

@kenriley Lol.

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What @SkotlandSkye said. =] Circumstances keep people from finding each other. Other circumstances keep people from each other.

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  1. Distance
  2. Fear of striking up conversation in the first place
Lani Level 5 Apr 17, 2018

Yep

3

Distance and there are a lot of people in this world.

3

Hell, I thought at the time my best friend and I were perfect for each other, but she was married to a guy she hated, and I... Well, I was single. Still am. I hate being single.

2

The Adjustment Bureau at work.

2

Usually it's due to eyes being closed.

I see

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  1. Geography
  2. Time
  3. Surface reasons -- appearances, perceived wealth/lifestyle, actual wealth/lifestyle

For example, the perfect person may be in India or China whilst you are in the USA and you will never meet them. Or, the person may be right in your city but your paths never cross or they get hit by a bus and cease to exist in your timeline. It could also be that you consider yourself in a different socio-economic class than the person and therefore never give them a second glance or, conversely, don't approach them out of fear of rejection. Finally, the perfect person may be a redhead....and you don't think gingers are really humans.... 😉

An example of "perceived lifestyle" would be rejecting someone because they had tattoos and/or ride a Harley. An example of "actual lifestyle" would be rejecting someone because they smoke and/or gamble every weekend at the local casino.

2

Location, location, location.

2

Dave Alvin did a great song - Abilene - kinda sums it all up for a lot of people I think.
. Then too it depends on what one is looking for, or looking at all.
The flip side to being single for anyone is that there are reasons why.
May be them....may be you....May be a combination of the two......which, by the way, is another great song.

Been puzzling over my single-ness......I think I still need to grow; went to a Church many years back where they spoke of AFGO: another fucking growth opportunity!

Single is not all bad......but a little male attention is so much fun!

2

Life's a bitch.

2

Distance and/or time and search engine limitations

1

Law of averages. Bad timing. Just because. Or they're blind to the fact that they're actually right in front of each other but can't see it.

1

Because they live in different countries and don't have access to online dating ?

Okay, that is good too

@DZhukovin
And they like being single !

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Because there are 7 billion+ people on the planet.

Not bad

1

Well its not that simple to find each other. There is too much space as there is too much time, for destiny to put both parties in the same coordinates.....

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Probability. It is possible to toss a coin 29 times and have it come up heads every time, just not very probable. Assuming there are a dozen perfect partners for you out there, the probability of finding them is about the same. One in world population divided by 12. And before someone says the population is half male and half female so that doubles the odds, the non desired gender is still there standing in the way so that doesn't change a thing.

Kimba Level 7 Apr 17, 2018
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Law of averages?

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Location... opportunity... common interests. Check this out...

  1. Im divorced. Shes divorced.
  2. I attend the same function
  3. I meet a beautiful lady. Her.
  4. We talk about our same interests
  5. I explained me to her.
  6. We are both are planners and understand projected flow. Contractor Costs and permits.
  7. we are both attractive and well groomed.
  8. I own my home... shes in the process of buying hers.
  9. Were both in our 50's but look younger.
  10. We're in great shape and compliment each other.
    This is how i met my 3rd wife... lol. We've changed since then...lol. but its cool.
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They are both imaginary ? Is this a trick question lol?

Yeh think people have said it all .. Time .. distance ... the random nature of life, numbers.

1

Shit Happens?

Coldo Level 8 Apr 17, 2018
1

Physical attraction.

I can't believe you said that

@buzz13 Why?

@Lysistrata What I inferred from your post is that looks are most important to you. Really? Women say men only want them for looks and sex, they never for want them for their minds.

@buzz13 I'm sorry for the confusion. They're not all that important to me, but I think they are to a lot of men. Deal-breaker important.

@Lysistrata OK my mistake, sorry for the comment, I meant no harm...lol

@buzz13 no harm.

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Opposing cultures

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