If you want her to hate you, you might succeed.

@yvilletom
But I am not saying anything. She will follow her bliss.

@St-Sinner Will she follow her bliss despite your silent opposition?

@yvilletom

Yes, surprisingly, she is acting very independent and fired up after going to school in New York. I wanted her to be pragmatic and not spend too much time in college education like my whole family did but the fact that she is thinking independently at 22 feels assuring.

I believe one undergrad degree is enough to succeed in life if you know how to use it in life beyond standing at someone's door to go begging for a 9 to 5 job. She has an Ivy league with awards, that would be enough.

@St-Sinner

She will get the message you think you are not sending.

@yvilletom

hmm, I am going to think about it. Thank you for bringing it up.