If I've never met you except online the Ghost. In per son I expect a 14 page prospectus as to why you are choosing to let me down. Craphs and PowerPoint appreciated

Straight up, full steam ahead and if it's online a simple block is fine too. I can't take it personal if I don't know you. I feel you don't really know someone without spending time together. Friends are for embracing acquaintances no big deal.
I digress.

Which ever is quicker, ie ASAP.

Oh face to face definitely. Then I can put on my hurt look and establish some guilt. Probably NOT.

does it really matter? people let me down all the time which makes them fucking assholes anyway. remember I didn't say turned down.

In person

I felt hurt, used and disillusioned when a man I was dating disappeared without saying anything. We had fun snowshoeing, playing jazz duets, laughing and talking. As soon as we had sex...POOF! Off he went to the next unsuspecting woman. This is cowardly and hurtful.

A year later, he apologized. "I hurt a lot of women," he said. He asked for another chance. "No," I replied. "I cannot trust you again."

I don't care, just get it over with.

I've been turned down more times than a loud radio. Sometimes they call and just say "NO" and hang up. Don't even leave a name. Usually I get the message after the restraining order is delivered (thanks a lot, Sofia Vergara).

My last and worst let down was via SMS. It crushed me. I'm not sure if it would have been any better face to face. At least I didn't have to register a response. You know, that "I hope you are going to be happy" thing.

Just go away do not say anything do not give an explanation, oh wait that is how it is usually done.

Face to face. Eyes don't lie.

In either case, I prefer honesty and directness. I have been known not to take "fuck off and die" for an answer, though.

new territory for me so no idea. I have a rule though, if you can't/won't do what's necessary to keep me around it's like being asked to "fire you".

I think the wires got crossed. Two different scenarios.

Because this is a dating site, how do you prefer to be let down online?

How do you preferred to be let down face-to-face?

Online. I would probably get punchy face to face, or something.

I prefer in person-if I know someone online if I don't progress to phone I end it.

Online is a let down in itself.