Well......let me put it this way. First time I was married, she wasn't.

We never cheated on each other in 27 years, the wife was super conservative and I didn't because I was afraid of hurting our daughter. But saying I never thought about it would be cheating. I was horny every day. There were a few chances too.

But cheating is not the worst thing in a relationship. There are worse like stealing money, working against partner, constant bitching and being a continuous negative energy. My life is almost over but I have been a supporter of open marriages. "Torn between two lovers" has been my favorite song.

My ex-wife had promised to quit her therapist before we got married, but continued, draining our savings and continuing to suffer and act out in response to her sessions. I'd say she was 'cheating' and she never showed the slightest benefit. Shame on them both.

my ex-husband was addicted to porn which ended our marriage. I think he was unfaithful in his lies about how much he used porn and how that affected my trust in him.