You're your own boss-up to you to set boundaries.

I can relate. I'm not interested in random hookups either. The thing that has helped me the most is deciding not to care about dating. I've made an effort to get out and do things I enjoy or try something new. I started with Meetups. I also go do things by myself, like local food events or cultural events.

Spend time getting out and doing fun things and meeting people that share your interests. Whatever you do, don't think of every guy you meet as a potential date. You'll make friends, find others annoying, but the bottom line is that you'll widen your social circle. Who knows which of your new friends might introduce you to the next guy worth dating.

In the meantime, you're out having fun. You won't miss the dating experience so much when you are already enjoying yourself.

I think be vigilant be in open places, if your both are happy of each other and if you think is the right thing to do I mean both of the parties not one sided skewed then why not but be wary I would check her out first before showing my place thats me

I would, if I could find someone to date.

2 AM sex worked for Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn, but I have a feeling they are the exception.

I do think things have changed. A considerable number of young men are tuning out on marriage, and even very attractive 30 year old women are having considerable difficulty finding a spouse. At least that's my subjective observation.