I'm physically attractive, but it's what I'm like mentally that is challenging. I'm a partial transmale, live as an androgynous female, and a demisexual, so I'm also incredibly incompatible with most. I am attracted to all genders and variations, but not sexually, so I'm not even sure of my "true" sexual orientation, if any.

I've already found out that I'm too independent to date women, and too male-ish to date most men. I suppose a gender blend might work, but that's what my ex was..he had such strong female traits that he was dangerously jealous of my attention and kept taking revenge on me for liking my job.

@birdingnut
My most difficult trait is asexuality. I'm willing to have sex occasionally but get no actual enjoyment from the act. I've never demanded a monogamous relationship but all the men I've been involved with seem to get a twisted kind of pleasure out of the act of cheating, the lying and sneaking part. I'm open to a relationship with a woman, but they expect sex, too.

I accepted the fact that I really don't play well with others and resent people in my space after a day or two. I travel with friends and family when I feel the need for companionship. Luckily, I enjoy spending time alone.