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How many say you're here for community, because you know there's little chance of meeting anyone compatible here?

I am in that category, but I would enjoy having a dance and hiking partner someday, after I move back to the US.

I am 65 years old, and a demisexual (not sexually attracted to people except after an extended, close relationship), so my interest is in companionship for now.

I also realize that at my age, there are limited numbers of people who are physically active enough to enjoy those types of activities, but, hey, there's always a chance!

birdingnut 8 May 2
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I really like the community here. I don't hold out any hope of meet someone to date, but I enjoy the online interactions.

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Here for community and happily married.

So any meets would be purely social.

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Never can tell where a conversation will start. So, I belong to many groups, and just post what I wanna. Occasionally I get a response. Currently I am engaged in 6 conversations, here and at OKcupid. Some more depthful than others. But all provide new knowledge about myself via my questions and answers, and their questions and answers.

Two have moved away from the website and and now conducted by email.

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I'm incredibly incompatible in a long term romantic relationship; however, I am a wonderful friend and nonsexual companion.

I don't consider myself sexually attractive and the losers I meet locally seem to think I should be so grateful for attention that I'll fall on their dicks.

I'm physically attractive, but it's what I'm like mentally that is challenging. I'm a partial transmale, live as an androgynous female, and a demisexual, so I'm also incredibly incompatible with most. I am attracted to all genders and variations, but not sexually, so I'm not even sure of my "true" sexual orientation, if any.

I've already found out that I'm too independent to date women, and too male-ish to date most men. I suppose a gender blend might work, but that's what my ex was..he had such strong female traits that he was dangerously jealous of my attention and kept taking revenge on me for liking my job.

@birdingnut
My most difficult trait is asexuality. I'm willing to have sex occasionally but get no actual enjoyment from the act. I've never demanded a monogamous relationship but all the men I've been involved with seem to get a twisted kind of pleasure out of the act of cheating, the lying and sneaking part. I'm open to a relationship with a woman, but they expect sex, too.

I accepted the fact that I really don't play well with others and resent people in my space after a day or two. I travel with friends and family when I feel the need for companionship. Luckily, I enjoy spending time alone.

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