Love will find a way. Let me put in a little analytical spin:
When Love hits, It's a "Relationship!
every “relationship” sits on layers :

Layer 1:

1. Interactions (intelligence, humor, gossip, trivial but fun...) ? 2. Activities (shared & enjoyed)?
2. Intimacy (sexual, physical and emotional)?

Layer 2 underneath dictates how and where the relationship may be heading:
(Shared or not) core values,
(in sync, harmonious or conflicting) personalities and beliefs,
then what evolves over time (people change (physically emotionally, life’s priorities, environment (who owns the house they live in, etc.

Yet another deeper 3rd layer: a person’s attitude: (part of personality?)

Positive or negative? For every bad trait of the spouse, are there good worthy traits ? Deeply ( thoughts or motives) hidden or willing to open up?
Willingness to communicate with your spouse/partner? With an outside therapist?

Most importantly: do you or your partner want to keep the relationship or not.
As we all are driven by what we want deep in our “heart/mind”, and “the desires…”
We make excuses for what we do, in any possible behavior directions.