you're right. some prefer to be miserable.

@Drank_Spear yes if someone is miserable it MUST be their fault. poisonous rhetoric.

@Drank_Spear Sometimes it is not choice. perhaps one has chemical imbalances in their brain. Perhaps they are in the desolate confines of a 4th world prison. Perhaps the pain is caused by a painful tumor, or the death of a loved one. And how is it that you tell others how they should see things. It is as if you spoke with the "higher power" & the "higher power" said tell them what I am deciding." As if you are the courier of some greater knowledge.

@Mooolah of course there are always excuses. You can see things anyway you wish. See them through excuses, go ahead, I don't mind. Go ahead, be miserable. I'm not standing in your way in any way, shape or form.

@Drank_Spear Blaming the victim are ya?
Karma is a bitch, and drawn to hubris.
I'd be very very careful if I were you

we all know some things and we don't know what we don't know. This is true always of everyone. You know this. Why state the obvious?

I cannot speak to someone who knows everything.

@Drank_Spear Ummm, that's Exactly why we all devoutly wish you would STFU!

@annewimsey500 I know you do and the fact I won't STFU proves you have no control whatsoever.

@Drank_Spear And I would want control over anyone Why?
You mean like using your method of alternately boring us and haranguing us? Hint: Not working....

@annewimsey500 no, you wish to have control over your own life which you don't have. I'm proof of that.

As for what I'm doing and how I'm doing it, that's my business. Like I said, if you don't like it, too bad.