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Court tomorrow and MRI wednesday. Probably most stressful week of my life. Worst is I'll be alone for both. I have had such bad luck just lately, so many losses and things go wrong, its hard to accept that these are purely random events. Even I, a reasonably sensible academic start imaging that I am storing up luck for the future. Its not true of course...all just a series of random events. Or as my Mum would have said, ' you make your own luck'. So courage to the sticking place on thursday night, it'll all be over with.

Amisja 8 May 7
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Good morning. ...wish I could be there for you

Thank you

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Well day 1. Of super stress week over and my ex has dramatically underestimated me. Well no more. Judge was clearly very sympathetic. Anyway he has to pay me £500 a month maintenance, drop the £400 I send him...plus 12months back pay. I will be £900 a month better off!!!!!!! Thank you all so much for your thoughts. It really helped. I read them all as I sat and waited in the waiting room. Yeah you got this Jayne (my real name). Thank you thank you thank you....onwards. (£900=$1300...not sure about Austrailian $)

Whoohoo!!! You rock ! Maybe we do have a cosmic vibe going on here ???! ?

Well, that's a few coffees and wines covered.
The Australian dollar total is around $1,600

@Petter whoop!

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I wish I could be your advocate for both events, A. But you know what, sometimes having the space to reflect on your own inner strength when you're facing something significant, can be a better option than having someone chatting in your ear. Sending love and best wishes....

Thank you so much

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Sending virtual hugs. When you feel stressed, just close your eyes for a micro second and grab one. Best I can do from here.?

Tilia Level 7 May 7, 2018

Thank you

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Hi Amisja, How are things looking now ? Pull up a chair, I'll pour a tea, or a gin, and you can tell us all the sordid details.
Hope you are in a better spot at least.

Tilia Level 7 May 8, 2018

I cannot believe the court don't even have my correct address.

@Amisja Aw crap **!!!

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I am seriously claustrophobic... I used to panic living in AZ because it is landlocked. I NEVER get in lifts. The idea of the MRI is utterly terrifying.

I get the MRI thing. I close my eyes as soon as I lay down and don't open them again until they slide me out again. Take care. I wish you well.

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Take a deep bresth and reward yourself with something comforting each day. Keepus posted about your situation - we can, ar least, offer a listening post.

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You are never alone. All your friends on this site are rooting (not rutting ) for you !,

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Hope it all works out.

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hang in there, when the day begins, just remember, time will pass, the day will end, you will be home again and it will be over. I know leading up to these things is stressy as is going through them. Promise yourself a nice tea/coffee/scotch? once you get home from each of these.

Thank you for those words...you are right. (Might be a gin though 😉 )

@Amisja whatever gets you through !

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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Just stay alive.

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In my experience I'll bet Court will take a lot longer than the MRI. 😉 Good luck.

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Sending prayers your way.

Hahaha thanks 😉

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hoping for the best. let us know how it goes

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We wish you well. May your random luck change direction!

Me too...if it does, I always share

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Hey friend, I hope it turns out good for you, Wishing you the best, and always thinking of you.

Thank you Ken, I can always run away to live in the farm 😉

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So sorry there!

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Hope both situations turn out with outcomes to your favor. Hang in there!

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I hope it all goes as well as it can.

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I hope things work out well for you.

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I've just been reading all the comments and your replies. I really sympathise with you.
If only we could do something "physical", like banging your ex's head against the wall of a synagogue. (Giving a whole new meaning to the description "wailing wall".)
MRI to look for what?

Had a car accident and undisclosed fracture of the clavical.

@Amisja wow, you are having a rough time of it. ?

@Amisja Ow! I spent 3 months walking sideways after that bloody train failed to stop before crossing the road. I sympathise.

@Petter oh wow...hope you are ok lovie?

@Amisja I refuse not to be OK. It's one of my annoying quirks! I hope your MRI goes well.

@Petter Thank you...dreading it

@Amisja Were I there, I would hold your hand for you. Just imagine that all your friends here are holding them, anyway.
I to Acrington about 15 years ago, to buy a used image setter for my publishing business, but I've never been back.
I see you are nearly at level 7 now. Once you reach it, don't fail to look up the Chat room.

@Petter Hey Petter...how cool you were here. I won't. Keep liking my posts 😉

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Shit Happens! Stay Strong ??????

Coldo Level 8 May 7, 2018
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Good luck for both events 🙂

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Believe in yourself, learn from this experience and never make the same mistake keep moving forward live in the present We all go thru this process in life

Rosh Level 7 May 7, 2018
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Best wishes. Remember, you have a caring community here.

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Good random luck

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