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Do you think morals can be taught?

I think back on my religious training as a kid. I was raised by a distracted grandmother who was also taking care of my bed ridden grandfather. No one tried to teach me anything until I was six and went to live with my Dad and my new step mother. I'm much more moral than either of them when it comes to following my conscience. My father was a military man that spent two tours in Korea and two tours in Vietnam.

The primary morality he seemed to be trying to teach me was that the moral thing was to to go kill people that my country told me to kill, a view I still strongly disagree with.
He's dead now, and the world is a better place for it.

Novelty 8 May 15
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Morals are the agreements of a social group regarding what is good/bad - right/wrong. As such they ARE taught. They are often, at least these days, related to economics, which are just as much social agreements as morals. As social animals, we rely on the support of our social group and will, therefore, adapt to the rules they set out for themselves, which may be much different than another group. With the ability we have today, to relate to so many we don't know personally, we must find agreements with them in order to get along (more broadly accepted morals). When agreements are challenged we get chaos, fear and hatred.

@Mortal innate? Do you mean to say that they are morals you would have had if you had never lived in a social setting? We are social creatures and we adopt the beliefs and attitudes of those we rely on for support, including their moral attitudes.

@Mortal like... instinctual?

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Do you feel you might not have all of the morals that you should have, and if you are having some doubt? I'm sorry for those early experiences my friend......

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All behavior is learned: by watching, by response, by language.

@Mortal you learned how to juggle.

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Sure, they can be taught, but as parents we can't dictate which lessons our kids will take. My son absolutely can be a nice guy, but he was more impressed by those "acting out" and "getting away with it" leading to a life of needless struggles.

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Yes

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I lean toward thinking that trying to teach others some sort of formulated behavior is a futile effort, causing more harm than good. I do think that if parents live joyfully and compassionately, their children will tend to follow suit.

Humans, even babies, are far beyond our ken. We can sometimes offer leadership but we can not alter a person’s essence.

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I'd argue that the only way to acquire morals is through experience which would be, I'd guess, a form of teaching.

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ethics are to promote the propagation of the species. morals are social constructs designed to favour mostly males and the rich

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I truly think morals come from within and that they can never be taught.

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I... I don't get this question. Of course they can be taught. I wasn't raised in religion and I have morals.

Remi Level 7 May 15, 2018
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This is a tricky one. They can be taught to the receptive. To those that already have a sense of compassion and empathy. If the student lacks those qualities, it's much harder, as the only internal motivations are to avoid pain or loss of freedom. And, even then, that would only be playing a role for the benefit of society for the student. In other words, you can't make someone care about something if they don't want to. I hate it, but it does seem to be the case in my experiences.

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Of course they can be taught. If kids have great role models and are taught decent morals from their infancy to their adulthood, they are less likely to a negative force on society. Not a guarentee, but it certainly doesn't hurt. I was taught morals as a child and how to treat ALL people (except Trump supporters), and I have carried that with me throughout my life.

@Mortal I don't disagree that moral training is necessary. It's pretty easy to figure out right from wrong on our own. The question was whether or not they can be taught and that's what I was responding too. I agree that I would have probably been able to grow into a good person either way because I have empathy for others. I sometimes have little patience for stupidity, but I have always been able to put myself into others shoes and figure out how I'd feel if this, or that, were done to me, and let that guide my decision making. Many people lack basic empathy skills.

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They can be suggested, enforced, obeyed, but if one is immune or indifferent to them, not a lot can sway that conviction.
I think what one would teach is not crossing lines.

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Yes.

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Teaching kids right from wrong is the best way for them to develop morals.
A lot of it is wholly individual and subjective. I think it's innate.
If someone is a sociopath, or a psychopath, it won't matter how much anyone else
has ever tried to teach them about morals.

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