Gentlemen, could you please give me some insight concerning unsolicited pictures of male genitalia? I've been on the very surprised & unhappy receiving end of such pictures. I'm far from a prude but to suddenly find the inclusion of a piece of male anatomy that I never said that I wanted to see, is a bit of a turn off. Any chance that a man may have had with me before that, is now gone. Why do some men assume that a woman automatically wants to see his junk? I thought he was an interesting man to chat with & then, there was a picture of his penis. That just killed it.
Write back saying you saw the porn movie that it was in and most of the time it couldn't achieve proper erection or ejaculation. That you like neither soft penises nor dickheads therefore you are not interested in him? Then block him.
@MermaidSuzy888 ?In future report them.
@MermaidSuzy888 You may have deleted but it will still be in archive. I thought that you had lost the name.
I hate it when guys will first act so conservative and reserved on a first date, then a week later BAM! you get photos of their worm in your text message box. When guys are horndogs you expect a dick pick within hours after the first date, but some guys are rather sneaky about it.
This is the equivilant of a molester pervert in the subway station. Report the smarmy creep.
no its not
@whiskywoman yes it is. your turn
Awww hell Suzy.... theres not sure answer to stop that. I understand your statement. Put it on your profile that pictures of their body are not wanted and those people will be blocked.... there you go...lol.
Boys do this because they are gay. Or they are familiar with dimwitted females who like to see those kinds of photos. You must realized that they have not been breastfed, which means there mothers probably like to see those pics too. I hope this helps... It is a turn of to me also. When I am on the dating app, and I see t&a in a message to me. They probably didn’t read my profile... ?
i love dick pics some are laughable and some impressive i wanna know what im getting before i get it
@MermaidSuzy888 then insult him and say " wow dude how can you be proud of that tiny thing"
if I was chatting with a woman and it was all going nicely and a picture of her pussy appeared in all its glory I would be gobsmacked. not because I'm shy or anything but just why do I want to see that.it's like saying a sentence like "I went down the shops earlier vagina" just fucking strange thing to do out of context. I've done cybersex and it's quite horny I thought but still no actual dick pics or just pussy shots.
I don't send those unsolicited for sure
@whiskywoman I'm sure you don't
Only ever done that once and not unsolicited and we ended up living together for 5 years and one kid. So she must have liked what she saw, it brought her 700 miles to get her hands on it, LMAO soz, funny mood.
really that good huh awesome good job
I wanna see
I thought it was because I was older and out of touch but that does not seem to be a promising approach.
can be fun
Apparently it's an Internet version of puffing your chest out to attract a mate . The individuals sending them think they have little to offer and less time . So sending a photo is quick easy and direct . It's even been said that it can be addictive as sending 100's and then getting one response is quiet the buzz . I wish it was an education thing such a not knowing the law but they have found that men from all walks of life have sent them . There's probably a few studies on the matter
MermaidSuzy888, My personal opinion is that private pictures of my attributes are NOT for public or unsolicited dissemination. The most logical reason that I can figure out is that a) men without a personal high self image show them to show "who they are are because of what they have or b) 5hey have been misguided about the arts of connecting and conversing with introduced women and have been "pushed off the rails" so to speak by the overwhelming avaiability of pornography on the net.
My own past has had ind8vidual women, who once we connected, shared such photos to both offer and request private favors (think party favors, not obligatory ones) as a means to share a closer relationship where face to face options may be limited.
I REPEAT, NOT UNSOLICITED ONES. Sharing is not anywhere close to forcing them on those who are not in close an respected relationships. Unfortunately, the world overshadowed by the internet allows, the immature, the horribly misinformed, the angry and resentful (with or without reason) to peddle their personal brands of fake news to cause grief. Good luck with the new privacy rules and the options to dismiss these xxxxxxxxxxxx redacted.
get a grip either you think what you got is good enough for anyone or you are looking for different things than the woman if you are courting and looking for something meaningful then it is irreverent if she loves or likes you she will like whatever you have but if its just a hook up the rules are different and men with not much to show often feel that way its not necessarily about self esteem its about what you want and sounds like you want more than a toss in the hay nothing wrong with that
Whaaaaat? Why would someone do that?
It's sexual violence, is what it is. It's forcing you into an uncomfortable situation with no concern for your personal wants, right or dignity.
how is it violence ive seen violence and a dic pic is nothing like that and if its requested or not if you want it ok if not delete it no biggie
Yeah, I pondered that word when I wrote it. In my view 'violence' can be other than just physical. If someone passed me in the street and out of the blue, leant into my face and bellowed the 'C' word, I'd put that in the category of violence. But I'm a sensitive bunny.
I will clarify though, that in no way am I putting it in the category of a physical attack or sexual assault. Though it is stronger than just sexual aggression and it's a breach of a person's right to dignity, and respect. But yep, 'violence' may be the wrong word for it.
@DaveMania inappropriate maybe unsolicited buck up buttercup you need to not be so delicate life is tough
Ive been there before, so I understand. one guy BEGGED my to let him send it. another guy sent one of him putting a shot into it, to help it harden. when I want to see their junk I'll ask. ive seen enough in my life very few dicks impress me. such a turn off
prostrate problems are why they do the shot and they loose effectiveness over time also he is usually less than what he was sometimes they have to take part of the penis when they operate
you just haven't seen the good ones darlin
He mistook this site for Grinder?
Porn is his only reference for sexual activity?
It was actually a plucked goose he was preparing for the oven?
Beyond that my imagination fails.
Obviously I don’t speak for all males, but all of mine are solicited.
Is that the same as high tech flashing? Doing that in person is a crime. I don't see how doing that over Email or text would be any different. Call the cops!
really that is your solution if it offends block that person otherwise get with it
@whiskywoman : You must be kidding. Maybe you like getting that sent to you unsolicited but how is getting that in a text any better than a flasher exposing himself in person? These are sex crimes.
@dare2dream if you see one dick you kinda wanna see them all and that's the culture now of course if you ask hi to stop and he won't then that is different don't be such a prude
@whiskywoman : I see. Times are different now. I'm old fashioned. I'm sure if you ASK you'll get lots of shots from some men. But some women don't want that. To each her own.
Thanks for that. Added to my growing collection.